心理学大师告诉你：关于人性的30个真相
<div class="wx_rich_media_content" id="jsWxContainer"><section style="display: none;" data-tools="新媒体管家" data-label="powered by xmt.cn" data-mpa-powered-by="yiban.io"><br></section><p style="text-align: center;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;color: rgb(127, 127, 127);letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: 微软雅黑;font-size: 12px;width: 100%;visibility: visible !important;"></span><br></p><p style="text-align: center;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></p><p style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); font-size: 16px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255); max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(107, 155, 8); font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> ·01· </span></strong></span></p><p style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></p><section data-id="93459" data-tools="135编辑器" style="box-sizing: border-box;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-top: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-left: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></p><section style="padding: 0em 0.8em; text-align: justify; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); letter-spacing: 1.5px; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">人可以防御他人的攻击，</span></p><p style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">但对他人的赞美却无能为力。</span></p><p style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></p><p style="text-align: right;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">——弗洛伊德</span></p></section></section><section style="text-align: right;box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-right: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);display: inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;"><br></section></section></section></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); font-size: 16px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255); max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(107, 155, 8); font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> ·02· </span></strong></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section data-id="93459" data-tools="135编辑器" style="box-sizing: border-box;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-top: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-left: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="padding: 0em 0.8em; text-align: justify; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); letter-spacing: 1.5px; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">理解自身的阴暗，</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">是对付他人阴暗一面的最好方法。</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="text-align: right;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">——荣格</span></section></section></section><section style="text-align: right;box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-right: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);display: inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;"><br></section></section></section></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: center;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;width: 100%;visibility: visible !important;height: auto;"></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="letter-spacing: 2px; font-size: 16px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255); max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(107, 155, 8); font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> ·03· </span></strong></strong></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section data-id="93459" data-tools="135编辑器" style="box-sizing: border-box;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-top: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-left: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="padding: 0em 0.8em; text-align: justify; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); letter-spacing: 1.5px; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">一个能够真正喜爱他人的人，</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">自然会毫不怀疑地</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">相信他人也会喜爱自己。</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="text-align: right;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">——卡伦·霍妮</span></section></section></section><section style="text-align: right;box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-right: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);display: inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;"><br></section></section></section></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: center;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;height: auto;"></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); font-size: 12px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); letter-spacing: 2px; font-size: 16px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255); max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(107, 155, 8); font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> ·04· </span></strong></span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 25px;text-align: center;color: rgb(127, 127, 127);font-size: 12px;font-family: 微软雅黑;box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section data-id="93459" data-tools="135编辑器" style="box-sizing: border-box;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-top: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-left: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="padding: 0em 0.8em; text-align: justify; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); letter-spacing: 1.5px; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">大多数人并不真的想要自由，</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">因为自由包含责任，</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">而大多数人害怕责任。</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="text-align: right;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">——弗洛伊德</span></section></section></section><section style="text-align: right;box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-right: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);display: inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;"><br></section></section></section></section><p style="padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></p><p style="padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: center;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;width: 100%;visibility: visible !important;height: auto;"></span></p><p style="padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></p><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); font-size: 12px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); letter-spacing: 2px; font-size: 16px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255); max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(107, 155, 8); font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> ·05· </span></strong></span></strong></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section data-id="93459" data-tools="135编辑器" style="box-sizing: border-box;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-top: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-left: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="padding: 0em 0.8em; text-align: justify; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); letter-spacing: 1.5px; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">一方面希望统治一切人，</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">另一方面又希望被一切人爱；</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">一方面顺从他人，</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">另一方面又把自己的意志强加在他们身上；</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">一方面疏远他人，</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">另一方面又渴望得到他们的爱。</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">正是这种完全不能解决的冲突</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">控制着我们的生活。</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="text-align: right;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">—<span style="caret-color: red;">—卡伦 霍尼 </span></span></section></section></section><section style="text-align: right;box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-right: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);display: inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;"><br></section></section></section></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;width: 100%;height: auto;"></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); font-size: 12px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); letter-spacing: 2px; font-size: 16px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255); max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(107, 155, 8); font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> ·06· </span></strong></span></strong></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section data-id="93459" data-tools="135编辑器" style="box-sizing: border-box;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-top: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-left: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="padding: 0em 0.8em; text-align: justify; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); letter-spacing: 1.5px; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">对于只有一把锤子的人来说，</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">他遇见的每样东西</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">看起来都像一颗钉子。</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="text-align: right;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">——马斯洛</span></section></section></section><section style="text-align: right;box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-right: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);display: inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;"><br></section></section></section></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); font-size: 12px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); letter-spacing: 2px; font-size: 16px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255); max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(107, 155, 8); font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> ·07· </span></strong></span></strong></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section data-id="93459" data-tools="135编辑器" style="box-sizing: border-box;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-top: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-left: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="padding: 0em 0.8em; text-align: justify; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); letter-spacing: 1.5px; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">在我们的文化中，</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">主要有四种方式</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">可供人们用来保护自己，</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">以避免基本焦虑的影响，</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">它们是：</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">爱、顺从、权力和退缩。</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="text-align: right;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">——卡伦 霍尼 </span></section></section></section><section style="text-align: right;box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-right: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);display: inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;"><br></section></section></section></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: center;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;width: 100%;visibility: visible !important;height: auto;"></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); font-size: 12px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); letter-spacing: 2px; font-size: 16px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255); max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(107, 155, 8); font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> ·08· </span></strong></span></strong></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section data-id="93459" data-tools="135编辑器" style="box-sizing: border-box;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-top: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-left: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="padding: 0em 0.8em; text-align: justify; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); letter-spacing: 1.5px; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">人的面孔要比人的嘴巴说出来的东西更多，</span><br></section><p style="text-align: center; letter-spacing: 0.5px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box; padding: 0em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">更有趣，因为嘴巴说出的只是人的思想，</span></p><p style="text-align: center; letter-spacing: 0.5px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box; padding: 0em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">而面孔说出的是思想的本质。</span></p><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="text-align: right;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">——叔本华</span></section></section></section><section style="text-align: right;box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-right: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);display: inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;"><br></section></section></section></section><p><br></p><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); font-size: 12px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); letter-spacing: 2px; font-size: 16px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255); max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(107, 155, 8); font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> ·09· </span></strong></span></strong></span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section data-id="93459" data-tools="135编辑器" style="box-sizing: border-box;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-top: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-left: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="padding: 0em 0.8em; text-align: justify; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); letter-spacing: 1.5px; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">一种徒有其表却无抱负和热情的平庸，</span><br></section><section style="text-align: center; letter-spacing: 0.5px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box; padding: 0em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">一种周而复始重复着的漫无目的的日子，</span></section><section style="text-align: center; letter-spacing: 0.5px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box; padding: 0em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">一种渐渐走向死亡却不问及目的的生命，</span></section><section style="text-align: center; letter-spacing: 0.5px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box; padding: 0em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">这就是他们所谓的“幸福”。</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"></span><br></section><section style="text-align: right;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">——</span><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">西蒙波伏娃</span><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"></span></section></section></section><section style="text-align: right;box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-right: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);display: inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;"><br></section></section></section></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: center;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;width: 100%;visibility: visible !important;height: auto;"></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); font-size: 12px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); letter-spacing: 2px; font-size: 16px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255); max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(107, 155, 8); font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> ·10· </span></strong></span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: auto;margin-left: auto;width: 91%;box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section data-id="93459" data-tools="135编辑器" style="box-sizing: border-box;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-top: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-left: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="padding: 0em 0.8em; text-align: justify; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); letter-spacing: 1.5px; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">我们每个人都有不同程度的自卑感，</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">因为我们都想让自己更优秀，</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">让自己过更好的生活。</span></section><section style="text-align: right;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">——阿德勒</span></section></section></section><section style="text-align: right;box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-right: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);display: inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;"><br></section></section></section></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;width: 100%;"></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); font-size: 12px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); letter-spacing: 2px; font-size: 16px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255); max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(107, 155, 8); font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> ·11· </span></strong></span></strong></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section data-id="93459" data-tools="135编辑器" style="box-sizing: border-box;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-top: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-left: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="padding: 0em 0.8em; text-align: justify; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); letter-spacing: 1.5px; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">孤独并不是来自身边无人。</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">感到孤独的真正原因是</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">无法与他人交流最要紧的感受。</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="text-align: right;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">——荣格 </span></section></section></section><section style="text-align: right;box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-right: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);display: inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;"><br></section></section></section></section><p style="padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></p><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); font-size: 12px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); letter-spacing: 2px; font-size: 16px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255); max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(107, 155, 8); font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> ·12· </span></strong></span></strong></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section data-id="93459" data-tools="135编辑器" style="box-sizing: border-box;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-top: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-left: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="padding: 0em 0.8em; text-align: justify; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); letter-spacing: 1.5px; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">现</span><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">代人在幻觉下生活，</span><br></section><section style="text-align: center; letter-spacing: 0.5px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box; padding: 0em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">他自以为他了解他所想要的东西，</span></section><section style="text-align: center; letter-spacing: 0.5px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box; padding: 0em;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></section><section style="text-align: center; letter-spacing: 0.5px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box; padding: 0em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">而实际上他所想要的是</span></section><section style="text-align: center; letter-spacing: 0.5px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box; padding: 0em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">他人所希望他要的东西。</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="text-align: right;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">——弗洛姆 </span></section></section></section><section style="text-align: right;box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-right: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);display: inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;"><br></section></section></section></section><p style="padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></p><p style="padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: center;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;width: 100%;visibility: visible !important;height: auto;"></span></p><p style="padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></p><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); font-size: 12px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); letter-spacing: 2px; font-size: 16px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255); max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(107, 155, 8); font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> ·13· </span></strong></span></strong></span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section data-id="93459" data-tools="135编辑器" style="box-sizing: border-box;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-top: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-left: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="padding: 0em 0.8em; text-align: justify; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); letter-spacing: 1.5px; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">所有人都会在轻视他人时很迟钝，</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">被他人轻视时很敏感。</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="text-align: right;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">——曾奇峰</span></section></section></section><section style="text-align: right;box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-right: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);display: inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;"><br></section></section></section></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); font-size: 12px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); letter-spacing: 2px; font-size: 16px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255); max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(107, 155, 8); font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> ·14· </span></strong></span></strong></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section data-id="93459" data-tools="135编辑器" style="box-sizing: border-box;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-top: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-left: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="padding: 0em 0.8em; text-align: justify; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); letter-spacing: 1.5px; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">人心有一种不良的倾向，</span><br></section><p style="text-align: center; letter-spacing: 0.5px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box; padding: 0em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">即只把摧残人心的东西称作命运。</span></p><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"></span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="text-align: right;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">——加缪 </span></section></section></section><section style="text-align: right;box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-right: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);display: inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;"><br></section></section></section></section><p style="text-align: center;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></p><p style="text-align: center;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: center;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;width: 100%;visibility: visible !important;height: auto;"></span><br></p><p style="text-align: center;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></p><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); font-size: 12px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); letter-spacing: 2px; font-size: 16px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255); max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(107, 155, 8); font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> ·15· </span></strong></span></strong></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section data-id="93459" data-tools="135编辑器" style="box-sizing: border-box;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-top: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-left: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="padding: 0em 0.8em; text-align: justify; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); letter-spacing: 1.5px; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">每个人，可能至少要结四次婚。</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">第一次结婚，是身体结婚；</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">第二次结婚，是意识结婚；</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">第三次结婚，是和自己结婚；</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">第四次结婚，是心与心的结婚。</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">婚姻的痛苦可能来源于：</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">我们只结了身体上的婚，</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">其他的时候我们都是单身。</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="text-align: right;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">——彭暖暖</span></section></section></section><section style="text-align: right;box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-right: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);display: inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;"><br></section></section></section></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;width: 100%;"></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); font-size: 12px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); letter-spacing: 2px; font-size: 16px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255); max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(107, 155, 8); font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> ·16· </span></strong></span></strong></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section data-id="93459" data-tools="135编辑器" style="box-sizing: border-box;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-top: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-left: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="padding: 0em 0.8em; text-align: justify; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); letter-spacing: 1.5px; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">人的内心既求生，也求死</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">我们既追逐光明，也追逐黑暗。</span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">我们既渴望爱，</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">有时候却又近乎自毁地浪掷手中的爱。</span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">人的心中好像一直有一片荒芜的夜地，</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">留给那个幽暗又寂寞的自我。</span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="text-align: right;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">——弗洛伊德</span></section></section></section><section style="text-align: right;box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-right: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);display: inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;"><br></section></section></section></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); font-size: 12px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); letter-spacing: 2px; font-size: 16px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255); max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(107, 155, 8); font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> ·17· </span></strong></span></strong></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section data-id="93459" data-tools="135编辑器" style="box-sizing: border-box;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-top: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-left: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="padding: 0em 0.8em; text-align: justify; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); letter-spacing: 1.5px; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">为了克服孤独与无能为力感，</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">个人便产生了放弃个性的冲动，</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">要把自己完全消融在外面的世界里。</span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="text-align: right;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">——弗洛姆 </span></section></section></section><section style="text-align: right;box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-right: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);display: inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;"><br></section></section></section></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: center;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;width: 100%;visibility: visible !important;height: auto;"></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); font-size: 12px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); letter-spacing: 2px; font-size: 16px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255); max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(107, 155, 8); font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> ·18· </span></strong></span></strong></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section data-id="93459" data-tools="135编辑器" style="box-sizing: border-box;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-top: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-left: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="padding: 0em 0.8em; text-align: justify; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); letter-spacing: 1.5px; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">现代人在幻觉下生活，</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">他自以为他了解他所想要的东西，</span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">而实际上他所想要的是</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">他人所希望他要的东西。</span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="text-align: right;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">——弗洛姆 </span></section></section></section><section style="text-align: right;box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-right: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);display: inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;"><br></section></section></section></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); font-size: 12px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); letter-spacing: 2px; font-size: 16px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255); max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(107, 155, 8); font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> ·19· </span></strong></span></strong></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section data-id="93459" data-tools="135编辑器" style="box-sizing: border-box;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-top: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-left: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="padding: 0em 0.8em; text-align: justify; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); letter-spacing: 1.5px; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">世界很单纯，人生也一样。</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">不是世界复杂， </span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">而是你把世界变复杂了。 </span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">没有一个人是住在客观的世界里， </span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">我们都居住在一个</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">各自赋予其意义的主观的世界。</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="text-align: right;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">——阿德勒 </span></section></section></section><section style="text-align: right;box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-right: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);display: inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;"><br></section></section></section></section><p style="padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></p><p style="padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: center;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;width: 100%;visibility: visible !important;height: auto;"></span></p><p style="padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></p><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); font-size: 12px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); letter-spacing: 2px; font-size: 16px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255); max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(107, 155, 8); font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> ·20· </span></strong></span></strong></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section data-id="93459" data-tools="135编辑器" style="box-sizing: border-box;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-top: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-left: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="padding: 0em 0.8em; text-align: justify; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); letter-spacing: 1.5px; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">爱情与成熟度无关。</span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">如果不努力发展自己的全部人格，</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">那么每种爱的努力都会失败。</span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="text-align: right;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">——弗洛姆</span></section></section></section><section style="text-align: right;box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-right: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);display: inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;"><br></section></section></section></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;width: 100%;"></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); font-size: 12px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); letter-spacing: 2px; font-size: 16px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255); max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(107, 155, 8); font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> ·21· </span></strong></span></strong></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section data-id="93459" data-tools="135编辑器" style="box-sizing: border-box;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-top: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-left: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="padding: 0em 0.8em; text-align: justify; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); letter-spacing: 1.5px; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">每天反复做的事情造就了我们，</span><br></section><p style="text-align: center; letter-spacing: 0.5px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box; padding: 0em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">然后你会发现，</span></p><p style="text-align: center; letter-spacing: 0.5px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box; padding: 0em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">优秀不是一种行为，而是一种习惯。</span></p><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"></span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="text-align: right;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">——亚里士多德</span></section></section></section><section style="text-align: right;box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-right: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);display: inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;"><br></section></section></section></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); font-size: 12px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); letter-spacing: 2px; font-size: 16px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255); max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(107, 155, 8); font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> ·22· </span></strong></span></strong></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section data-id="93459" data-tools="135编辑器" style="box-sizing: border-box;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-top: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-left: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="padding: 0em 0.8em; text-align: justify; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); letter-spacing: 1.5px; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">服从他人比支配自己要容易，</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">容易得多。</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="text-align: right;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">——欧文·亚隆 </span></section></section></section><section style="text-align: right;box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-right: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);display: inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;"><br></section></section></section></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: center;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;width: 100%;visibility: visible !important;height: auto;"></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); font-size: 12px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); letter-spacing: 2px; font-size: 16px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255); max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(107, 155, 8); font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> ·23· </span></strong></span></strong></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section data-id="93459" data-tools="135编辑器" style="box-sizing: border-box;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-top: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-left: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="padding: 0em 0.8em; text-align: justify; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); letter-spacing: 1.5px; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">其</span><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">实人跟树是一样的，越是向往高处的阳光，</span><br></section><p style="text-align: center; letter-spacing: 0.5px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box; padding: 0em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">它的根就越要伸向黑暗的地底。</span></p><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="text-align: right;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">——尼采</span></section></section></section><section style="text-align: right;box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-right: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);display: inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;"><br></section></section></section></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); font-size: 12px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); letter-spacing: 2px; font-size: 16px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255); max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(107, 155, 8); font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> ·24· </span></strong></span></strong></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section data-id="93459" data-tools="135编辑器" style="box-sizing: border-box;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-top: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-left: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="padding: 0em 0.8em; text-align: justify; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); letter-spacing: 1.5px; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">男性对女性较为开放，</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">女性彼此之间也较为开放，</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">但男性对男性不怎么进行自我表露。</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="text-align: right;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">——罗兰·米勒 / 丹尼尔·珀尔曼</span></section></section></section><section style="text-align: right;box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-right: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);display: inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;"><br></section></section></section></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: center;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;width: 100%;visibility: visible !important;height: auto;"></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); font-size: 12px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); letter-spacing: 2px; font-size: 16px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255); max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(107, 155, 8); font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> ·25· </span></strong></span></strong></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section data-id="93459" data-tools="135编辑器" style="box-sizing: border-box;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-top: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-left: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="padding: 0em 0.8em; text-align: justify; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); letter-spacing: 1.5px; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">压抑敌意，</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">意味着“伪装”一切正常，</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">从而导致在本应当进入战斗的时候，</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">或者至少是在我们想要投入战斗时，</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">避免进入战斗。</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="text-align: right;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">——卡伦 霍尼</span></section></section></section><section style="text-align: right;box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-right: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);display: inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;"><br></section></section></section></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;width: 100%;"></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); font-size: 12px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); letter-spacing: 2px; font-size: 16px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255); max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(107, 155, 8); font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> ·26· </span></strong></span></strong></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section data-id="93459" data-tools="135编辑器" style="box-sizing: border-box;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-top: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-left: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="padding: 0em 0.8em; text-align: justify; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); letter-spacing: 1.5px; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">我总是在迈出绝望的一步时，</span><br></section><p style="text-align: center; letter-spacing: 0.5px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box; padding: 0em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">就很快耗尽了那一点点我在辛勤的智力生活中</span></p><p style="text-align: center; letter-spacing: 0.5px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box; padding: 0em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">慢慢积累起来的快乐和信心。</span></p><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="text-align: right;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">——</span><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">克尔凯郭尔</span><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"></span></section></section></section><section style="text-align: right;box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-right: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);display: inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;"><br></section></section></section></section><p style="padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></p><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); font-size: 12px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); letter-spacing: 2px; font-size: 16px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255); max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(107, 155, 8); font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> ·27· </span></strong></span></strong></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section data-id="93459" data-tools="135编辑器" style="box-sizing: border-box;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-top: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-left: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="padding: 0em 0.8em; text-align: justify; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); letter-spacing: 1.5px; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">人的精神有三种境界：</span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">骆驼、狮子和婴儿。</span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">第一境界骆驼，忍辱负重，</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">被动地听命于别人或命运的安排；</span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">第二境界狮子，把被动变成主动，</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">由“你应该”到“我要”，</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">一切由我主动争取，</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">主动负起人生责任；</span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">第三境界婴儿，</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">这是一种“我是”的状态，</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">活在当下，享受现在的一切。</span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="text-align: right;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">——尼采</span></section></section></section><section style="text-align: right;box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-right: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);display: inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;"><br></section></section></section></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: center;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;width: 100%;visibility: visible !important;height: auto;"></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); font-size: 12px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); letter-spacing: 2px; font-size: 16px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255); max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(107, 155, 8); font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> ·28· </span></strong></span></strong></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section data-id="93459" data-tools="135编辑器" style="box-sizing: border-box;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-top: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-left: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="padding: 0em 0.8em; text-align: justify; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); letter-spacing: 1.5px; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">权利的相互转让就是人们所谓的契约。</span><br></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="text-align: right;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">——</span><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">霍布斯</span><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"></span></section></section></section><section style="text-align: right;box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-right: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);display: inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;"><br></section></section></section></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); font-size: 12px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); letter-spacing: 2px; font-size: 16px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255); max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(107, 155, 8); font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> ·29· </span></strong></span></strong></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section data-id="93459" data-tools="135编辑器" style="box-sizing: border-box;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-top: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-left: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="padding: 0em 0.8em; text-align: justify; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); letter-spacing: 1.5px; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">真正的“叛逆”不是沉溺于孩子气的挑战，</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">而是某种对自我尊严和精神的捍卫。</span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">它是一个人学会尊重自己</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">以及他人说“不”的权利，</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">它不会带来关系纠葛或是自我的负罪感，</span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">相反，</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">你从中能够感受到真正的自由，</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">和来自他人的尊重。</span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="text-align: right;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">——罗洛·梅 </span></section></section></section><section style="text-align: right;box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-right: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);display: inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;"><br></section></section></section></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: center;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;width: 100%;visibility: visible !important;height: auto;"></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); font-size: 12px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); letter-spacing: 2px; font-size: 16px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255); max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(107, 155, 8); font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> ·30· </span></strong></span></strong></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section data-id="93459" data-tools="135编辑器" style="box-sizing: border-box;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-top: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-left: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="padding: 0em 0.8em; text-align: justify; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); letter-spacing: 1.5px; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">无法成为我们自己</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">是一切绝望的根源。</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="text-align: right;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">——卡伦·霍妮 </span></section></section></section><section style="text-align: right;box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-right: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);display: inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;"><br></section></section></section></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); font-size: 12px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); letter-spacing: 2px; font-size: 16px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255); max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(107, 155, 8); font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> ·31· </span></strong></span></strong></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section data-id="93459" data-tools="135编辑器" style="box-sizing: border-box;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-top: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-left: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="padding: 0em 0.8em; text-align: justify; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); letter-spacing: 1.5px; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">只有当我们愿意承受打击时，</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">才能有希望成为自己的主人。</span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">虚假的冷静植根于内心的愚钝，</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">绝不是值得羡慕的，</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">它只会使我们变得虚弱而不堪一击。</span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="text-align: right;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">——卡伦·霍妮 </span></section></section></section><section style="text-align: right;box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-right: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);display: inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;"><br></section></section></section></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;letter-spacing: 0.5px;white-space: normal;width: 578px;"></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); font-size: 12px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); letter-spacing: 2px; font-size: 16px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255); max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(107, 155, 8); font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> ·32· </span></strong></span></strong></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section data-id="93459" data-tools="135编辑器" style="box-sizing: border-box;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-top: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-left: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="padding: 0em 0.8em; text-align: justify; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); letter-spacing: 1.5px; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">就嫉妒而言，</span></section><p style="text-align: center; letter-spacing: 0.5px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box; padding: 0em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">我痛苦了四回：</span></p><p style="text-align: center; letter-spacing: 0.5px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box; padding: 0em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"><br></span></p><p style="text-align: center; letter-spacing: 0.5px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box; padding: 0em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">因为我嫉妒；</span></p><p style="text-align: center; letter-spacing: 0.5px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box; padding: 0em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">因为我怪自己嫉妒；</span></p><p style="text-align: center; letter-spacing: 0.5px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box; padding: 0em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">因为我担心我的嫉妒伤害另一个人；</span></p><p style="text-align: center; letter-spacing: 0.5px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box; padding: 0em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">因为我任凭自己落入俗套。</span></p><p style="text-align: center; letter-spacing: 0.5px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box; padding: 0em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"><br></span></p><p style="text-align: center; letter-spacing: 0.5px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box; padding: 0em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">我痛苦，是因为被排斥，</span></p><p style="text-align: center; letter-spacing: 0.5px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box; padding: 0em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">因为自己咄咄逼人、疯狂、粗俗。</span></p><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section><section style="text-align: right;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">——</span><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">罗兰·巴特</span><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"></span></section></section></section><section style="text-align: right;box-sizing: border-box;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><section style="width: 100px;height: 14px;border-right: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(0, 32, 96);display: inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;"><br></section></section></section></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: center;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-size: 16px;width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;height: auto;"></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><br></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); font-size: 12px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); letter-spacing: 2px; font-size: 16px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255); max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(107, 155, 8); font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> ·33· </span></strong></span></strong></span></section><section data-id="93459" data-tools="135编辑器" style="box-sizing: border-box;padding-left: 0em;padding-right: 0em;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="padding: 0em 0.8em; text-align: justify; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); letter-spacing: 1.5px; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">你没有觉察到的事情，</span></section><section style="text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">就会变成你的「命运」。</span></section><section style="text-align: right;letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br></section></section></section></section></section><p style="display: none;"><mp-style-type data-value="3"></mp-style-type></p><br>转载声明：本文转载自「镜子心理」，搜索「jingzixinli」即可关注，[<a target="_blank" href="https://mp.weixin.qq.com/s/evrdzqzWFHxa7sqd41FIwg">阅读原文</a>]。</div><p></p>
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