gongyi020 发表于 2023-5-3 09:42:20

永远不要对抑郁的孩子说这20句话

<div class="wx_rich_media_content" id="jsWxContainer"><p style="margin-top: 0em; margin-bottom: 20px; outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: center; visibility: visible;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"></p><section style="outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;"><section data-id="49236" data-type="lspecial02" data-tools="小蚂蚁编辑器" powered-by="xmyeditor.com" data-md5="31ffe" style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"><section powered-by="xmyeditor.com" data-bastyle="background-color:#e8ebf9;padding:13px 9px;box-sizing:border-box;" data-md5="31ffe" style="padding: 13px 9px;outline: 0px;background-color: rgb(242, 242, 242);visibility: visible;"><section powered-by="xmyeditor.com" data-md5="31ffe" style="outline: 0px;width: 252px;line-height: 16px;visibility: visible;"><section powered-by="xmyeditor.com" data-md5="31ffe" style="outline: 0px;display: -webkit-box;-webkit-box-pack: center;-webkit-box-align: center;visibility: visible;"><section powered-by="xmyeditor.com" data-md5="31ffe" style="margin-top: -3px;outline: 0px;-webkit-box-flex: 1;width: 0px;visibility: visible;"><section powered-by="xmyeditor.com" data-md5="31ffe" style="outline: 0px;height: 0px;border-top: 1px dashed rgb(191, 196, 204);visibility: visible;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"></section></section><section powered-by="xmyeditor.com" data-md5="31ffe" style="margin-left: 7px;outline: 0px;width: 10px;line-height: 16px;visibility: visible;"><section powered-by="xmyeditor.com" data-md5="31ffe" style="outline: 0px;width: 10px;height: 10px;line-height: 10px;background-color: rgb(191, 196, 204);border-radius: 50%;visibility: visible;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"></section><section powered-by="xmyeditor.com" data-md5="31ffe" style="margin-top: -4px;margin-right: 4.2px;margin-left: auto;outline: 0px;width: 1px;height: 10px;line-height: 10px;background-color: rgb(191, 196, 204);transform: rotate(45deg);visibility: visible;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"></section></section><section powered-by="xmyeditor.com" data-md5="31ffe" style="margin-left: 2px;outline: 0px;width: 10px;line-height: 20px;visibility: visible;"><section powered-by="xmyeditor.com" data-md5="31ffe" style="outline: 0px;width: 10px;height: 10px;line-height: 10px;background-color: rgb(191, 196, 204);border-radius: 50%;visibility: visible;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"></section><section powered-by="xmyeditor.com" data-md5="31ffe" style="margin-top: -4px;margin-right: 4px;margin-left: auto;outline: 0px;width: 1px;height: 10px;line-height: 10px;background-color: rgb(191, 196, 204);transform: rotate(45deg);visibility: visible;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xmyeditor.com" data-md5="31ffe" style="margin: 15px 8px;outline: 0px;clear: both;line-height: 24px;letter-spacing: 1px;visibility: visible;"><section powered-by="xmyeditor.com" data-md5="31ffe" style="margin: 15px 8px;outline: 0px;clear: both;line-height: 24px;visibility: visible;"><p style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"><strong style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px; color: rgb(110, 110, 110); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.5px; visibility: visible;">抑郁的孩子,就像被黑暗的浪潮淹没,看不见路,也控制不了自己的身体。</span></strong></p><section style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;margin-top: 16px;"><strong style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px; color: rgb(110, 110, 110); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.5px; visibility: visible;">冷眼和嘲讽只会让他们越陷越深,唯有看见他们、伸出援手,才能给他们带去光亮。</span></strong><br></section></section></section><section powered-by="xmyeditor.com" data-md5="31ffe" style="margin-left: auto;outline: 0px;width: 252px;line-height: 16px;visibility: visible;"><section powered-by="xmyeditor.com" data-md5="31ffe" style="outline: 0px;display: -webkit-box;-webkit-box-pack: center;-webkit-box-align: center;visibility: visible;"><section powered-by="xmyeditor.com" data-md5="31ffe" style="margin-top: -3px;outline: 0px;-webkit-box-flex: 1;width: 0px;visibility: visible;"><section powered-by="xmyeditor.com" data-md5="31ffe" style="outline: 0px;height: 0px;border-top: 1px dashed rgb(191, 196, 204);visibility: visible;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"></section></section><section powered-by="xmyeditor.com" data-md5="31ffe" style="margin-left: 7px;outline: 0px;width: 10px;line-height: 16px;visibility: visible;"><section powered-by="xmyeditor.com" data-md5="31ffe" style="outline: 0px;width: 10px;height: 10px;line-height: 10px;background-color: rgb(191, 196, 204);border-radius: 50%;visibility: visible;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"></section><section powered-by="xmyeditor.com" data-md5="31ffe" style="margin-top: -4px;margin-right: 4.2px;margin-left: auto;outline: 0px;width: 1px;height: 10px;line-height: 10px;background-color: rgb(191, 196, 204);transform: rotate(45deg);visibility: visible;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"></section></section><section powered-by="xmyeditor.com" data-md5="31ffe" style="margin-left: 2px;outline: 0px;width: 10px;line-height: 20px;visibility: visible;"><section powered-by="xmyeditor.com" data-md5="31ffe" style="outline: 0px;width: 10px;height: 10px;line-height: 10px;background-color: rgb(191, 196, 204);border-radius: 50%;visibility: visible;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"></section><section powered-by="xmyeditor.com" data-md5="31ffe" style="margin-top: -4px;margin-right: 4px;margin-left: auto;outline: 0px;width: 1px;height: 10px;line-height: 10px;background-color: rgb(191, 196, 204);transform: rotate(45deg);visibility: visible;"><strong style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: center;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(110, 110, 110);font-size: 12px;outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"></strong><br></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section style="outline: 0px; 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font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; visibility: visible;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.578px;width: 677px !important;visibility: visible !important;"></span></p><p style="text-align: center;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;"></span></p><p style="outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;width: 677px !important;visibility: visible !important;"></span></p><section style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 24px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">当孩子陷入抑郁,父母是非常非常难的。</span></section><section style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 24px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">因为这个时候说什么都不太对,怎么做都容易出错,怎么陪伴都不会在短期内让孩子觉得“有用”,所以没有什么比接纳孩子更重要了。</span></section><section style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 24px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">但凡你希望孩子快速走出来,都不应该透露出对孩子的失望、不耐烦,因为这些都会让孩子的症状更严重。</span></section><section style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 24px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">网上很多人说,现在的孩子太脆弱了。</span></section><section style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-top: 24px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">其实抑郁症自古就有,只是你不知道罢了。我们小时候也一样会有,只是那时候资讯没有这么发达,你听说的少,但这并不代表没有。</span></section><p style="margin: 24px 8px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">抑郁症是社会因素、心理因素、身体因素三方面作用的结果,身体可以感冒,心理也会感冒。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;">我们不应该对心理感冒有任何歧视和偏见,如果我们能客观面对,就能让抑郁症人群少一些羞耻感,这样有利于他们更好地康复。 </span></p><section class="channels_iframe_wrp" style="margin-bottom: 24px;"><mp-common-videosnap class="js_uneditable custom_select_card channels_live_iframe" data-pluginname="mpvideosnap" data-weui-theme="light" data-headimgurl="https://wx.qlogo.cn/finderhead/Q3auHgzwzM6bqGTCkqgnJl02vqRzDiaP9ib65hudAy7klMrceDtdJNVw/0" data-username="v2_060000231003b20faec8cae08019c5d0ca07ec32b077fc1f1290fc8420f096956311a4b2904c@finder" data-nickname="男孩派" data-desc="将在05月08日 19:45 直播" data-livewording="预约" data-intro="父母爱对了,孩子才优秀嘉宾:郑委,著名教育学者、“爱与幸福”家庭教育理论创立者和核心研发人" data-type="live" data-status="0" data-noticeid="finderlivenotice-v2_060000231003b20faec8cae08019c5d0ca07ec32b077fc1f1290fc8420f096956311a4b2904c@finder-1682566424395463-1368902880" data-isdisabled="0" data-errortips=""></mp-common-videosnap></section><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style="outline: 0px; 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