15个表扬和10个惩罚孩子的科学方法，请家长查收
<div class="wx_rich_media_content" id="jsWxContainer"><section data-mpa-powered-by="yiban.io"><section data-mpa-template="t" data-from="yb-recommend-list"><section data-mpa-template="t" data-from="yb-recommend" data-recommend-article-type="normal" data-recomment-template-id="1" data-recommend-article-id="2649366201_1" data-recommend-article-time="1680219360" data-recommend-article-cover="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/AhibZAY8vCpH5t7IuydSgoIicJa3HiaYs6yQibgRXyliaZUVJ2xLYyTbFGMs2NgryNQIGKoEYUcM8ticsibmicsv4mAS6A/0?wx_fmt=jpeg" data-recommend-article-title="孩子的毛病与家庭毛病的关系竟是这样！（附行为对照表）" data-recommend-article-content-url="https://mp.weixin.qq.com/s?__biz=MzA5MTQxMTY4Ng==&mid=2649366201&idx=1&sn=ebc09ace20b469714cc7c59c79a70071&chksm=88627b30bf15f226f8524d19e187fdcfacbaf09a750addb9dcc93bc30a192d8bab3a900115e3#rd"><br></section></section><p style="text-align: center;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;"></span></p><section style="margin-right: 10px;margin-left: 10px;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;"><br></span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px;margin-left: 10px;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">日常生活中，当孩子表现优秀时，你是否是这样夸奖孩子的—“你真棒”，“你真聪明”·······</span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px;margin-left: 10px;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px;margin-left: 10px;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">当孩子犯错误时，你是否是这样惩罚孩子的—“打孩子一顿”，“骂孩子”········</span></section><section style="line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px;margin-left: 10px;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(190, 26, 29);"><strong>表扬和惩罚时一门学问，那么该如何做呢？</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px;margin-left: 10px;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px;margin-left: 10px;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 2px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;"><strong>以下是《人民日报》推荐的表扬、批评、惩罚孩子的科学方法，值得各位家长参考。</strong></span></section><section style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section></section><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="98856"><section><section style="margin: 10px auto;text-align: center;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><section style="display: flex;flex-direction: column;justify-content: center;align-items: center;"><section data-original-title="" title="" style="font-weight: bold;color: rgb(62, 68, 225);font-size: 60px;"><p style="margin-right: 10px;margin-left: 10px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">1</span></p></section><section data-width="15%" style="margin-top: -35px;width: 86.6953px;height: 1px;background: rgb(62, 68, 225);overflow: hidden;"><br></section></section></section><section data-brushtype="text" hm_fix="296:266" style="padding: 8px; font-size: 16px; font-weight: bold; letter-spacing: 1.5px; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; transform: rotate(0deg);"><section style="margin-right: 10px;margin-left: 10px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">15个表扬孩子的科学方法</span></section></section></section></section><section style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(190, 26, 29);"><strong>1. 表扬努力：</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">当孩子给你呈现一幅漂亮的画，或是他的其他成绩时，不要被喜悦冲昏了头脑，记得肯定他为此付出的艰辛和努力。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(190, 26, 29);"><strong>2. 表扬坚毅：</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">当孩子完成一件对他来说很有挑战的事情时，无数次失败后肯反复尝试，请记得肯定他的耐心和坚持。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(190, 26, 29);"><strong>3. 表扬态度：</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">当孩子对面临的任务充满了积极向上的正能量时，可不要忘了抓住机会美言几句。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(190, 26, 29);"><strong>4. 表扬细节：</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">当孩子再某方面能力有所提高时，表扬细节，越具体越好，比如：宝贝，你现在游泳时手上姿势更标准了，进步了很多。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(190, 26, 29);"><strong>5. 表扬创意：</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">孩子的奇思妙想时创意和思考的积累，时孩子再尝试无数次可能性方案之后才收获的脑洞大开，表扬“真聪明”不如表扬“有创意”</span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(190, 26, 29);"><strong>6. 表扬合作精神：</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">如果孩子和小伙伴一起合作完成了某件事，做得还不错，请一定抓住机会肯定孩子的合作沟通能力。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(190, 26, 29);"><strong>7. 表扬领导力：</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">有些事虽然不完全事孩子一个人做的，但他是负责管理的，做的好是因为他有很强的责任心和领导能力。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(190, 26, 29);"><strong>8. 表扬勇气：</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">表扬孩子的勇气，最能帮助他涨“自信指数”</span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(190, 26, 29);"><strong>9. 表扬热心：</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">“赠人玫瑰，手有余香”，表扬孩子的热心能鼓励他多帮助别人。同时也能让他知道，懂得求助别人、从别人的经验中学习，也是克服困难的方法。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(190, 26, 29);"><strong>10. 表扬责任心和条理性：</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">能把自己的东西收拾整理好，是有责任心、有条理性的体现，这是孩子能做好其他事情的基础，表扬和鼓励是必须的。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(190, 26, 29);"><strong>11. 表扬信用：</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">良好的信用会让孩子的人生道路更加顺畅，所以要适时帮他建立。比如和孩子约定什么时，可以说“我相信你，因为前几次你说话都算数”</span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(190, 26, 29);"><strong>12. 表扬参与：</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">参与活动能开拓视野，当孩子积极踊跃地参加活动，并在活动中表现不错时，一定要鼓励他地参与感。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(190, 26, 29);"><strong>13. 表扬开放虚心的态度：</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">从别人身上吸取好的建议和经验，自己的能力也会不断提高。拥有成长型思维的人一般都有着开放虚心的态度。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(190, 26, 29);"><strong>14. 表扬选择：</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">物质表扬会纵坏孩子，精神层面的表扬让孩子感受到被认可，更好地塑造价值观。能出色地完成任务，有时是因为努力，有时是因为改变了策略而做出了正确的选择。表扬策略，也是培养成长型思维的关键。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(190, 26, 29);"><strong>15. 表扬细心：</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">细心不仅体现谨小慎微，更体现在孩子考虑问题的全面性和多角度。比如出门玩的时候，孩子记得带伞，后来下雨了还真用的着，原来是细心的孩子出门之前查看了当天的天气预报。这时，爸爸妈妈就该表扬一下他的细心和考虑周全。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;height: 334px;width: 500px;"></span></section><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="98856"><section><section style="margin: 10px auto;text-align: center;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><section style="display: flex;flex-direction: column;justify-content: center;align-items: center;"><section data-original-title="" title="" data-num="2" aria-describedby="tooltip581906" hm_fix="282:246" style="font-weight: bold;color: rgb(62, 68, 225);font-size: 60px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">2</span></section><section data-width="15%" style="margin-top: -35px;width: 86.6953px;height: 1px;background: rgb(62, 68, 225);overflow: hidden;"><br></section></section></section><section style="padding: 8px; font-size: 16px; font-weight: bold; letter-spacing: 1.5px; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; transform: rotate(0deg); font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">8个批评孩子的科学方法</span></section></section></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(190, 26, 29);"><strong>1. 允许孩子解释：</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">偏听则暗，兼听则明，不能听信某一方的指责，要允许孩子自己解释。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">家长保持中立，客观评价孩子是否做错，为什么做错。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(190, 26, 29);"><strong>2. 学会换位思考：</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">家长要换位思考，理解孩子这么做的目的，找准批评的切入点。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">并且让孩子换位思考，“假设你是那个人，你会有什么感受，这么做到底对不对”。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(190, 26, 29);"><strong>3. 首先自我批评：</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">批评孩子前，家长先进行自我批评，放低身段，迅速拉近跟孩子的关系。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">家长的自我批评，也能让孩子学会自我反思。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(190, 26, 29);"><strong>4. 只对事不对人：</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">孩子做错了或者没做好，家长第一反应不是责骂，而是指导。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">就事论事，让孩子明白为什么不能这么做，这么做会有什么后果。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(190, 26, 29);"><strong>5. 教会孩子改错</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">不能盲目地批评，要通过科学的方法让孩子意识到错误，并且找到改错的方法。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">利用批评再给孩子上一课，是批评的意义所在。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(190, 26, 29);"><strong>6. 选择恰当的时机：</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">不能在孩子起床时、睡觉前、吃饭时、生病时批评他，这会直接影响他的身心健康。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">最好和孩子坐下来平静交流，父母可以对孩子提要求，孩子也可以对父母提意见。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(190, 26, 29);"><strong>7. 采用和善的态度：</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">批评孩子≠骂孩子，父母更不能向孩子宣泄情绪，应该简明扼要地指出错误，然后再教育。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">也不要动不动就翻旧账，让孩子抵触认错，不服管教。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(190, 26, 29);"><strong>8. 尊重孩子的自尊：</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">别当着外人面批评孩子，更不要在孩子的同学、老师面前对他又打又骂。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">不只大人需要被尊重，孩子同样需要被尊重，孩子的内心比我们想象的更加脆弱敏感。</span></section><section style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;height: 385px;width: 578px;"></span></section><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="98856"><section><section style="margin: 10px auto;text-align: center;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><section style="display: flex;flex-direction: column;justify-content: center;align-items: center;"><section data-original-title="" title="" data-num="3" style="font-weight: bold;color: rgb(62, 68, 225);font-size: 60px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">3</span></section><section data-width="15%" hm_fix="262:253" style="margin-top: -35px;width: 86.6953px;height: 1px;background: rgb(62, 68, 225);overflow: hidden;"><br></section></section></section><section style="padding: 8px; font-size: 16px; font-weight: bold; letter-spacing: 1.5px; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; transform: rotate(0deg); font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">10个惩罚孩子的科学方法</span></section></section></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(190, 26, 29);"><strong>1. 练字：</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">练字是一种比较枯燥的学习，但能够让孩子平静下来，反思自己。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">等孩子练好字了，家长也恢复平静了，这时候就可以心平气和地交流。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(190, 26, 29);"><strong>2. 弥补：</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">孩子弄脏了地面，就让他拿小扫帚小拖布去清理，赖床耽误了时间，就让他多背几首古诗。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">让孩子学会对自己的行为负责，胜过一切打骂。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(190, 26, 29);"><strong>3. 面壁思过：</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">家长长时间的冷落会让孩子难受，从而开始反思自己是否真的做错。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">如果孩子不配合，家长可以稍微拉长面壁时间，直到孩子承认错误再跟他讲道理。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(190, 26, 29);"><strong>4. 改变声调：</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">父母直接指责孩子，孩子一定会反抗，这时就应该改变语气，“太可惜了，因为你一直没做作业，就失去一次和小伙伴玩的机会”。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">当孩子意识到做作业就能跟小伙伴玩，他会避免下一次不做作业带来的不愉快的后果。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(190, 26, 29);"><strong>5. 帮忙做家务：</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">孩子犯错后，家长可以罚他做一些他不爱做的家务，如收拾房间、洗衣服等等。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">既能够锻炼他的动手能力，又能培养他的责任心和家庭参与感。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(190, 26, 29);"><strong>6. 暂停某些权利：</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">比如说，不让孩子玩玩具，不允许孩子到同学家做客，限制孩子玩手机的时长等等。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">告诉他，正因为他做错了才会有这样的后果，当他表现好的时候就能恢复权利。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(190, 26, 29);"><strong>7. 减少亲密行为：</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">在惩罚孩子的过程中，不跟孩子拥抱，不对孩子爱抚，不再用温柔的语气聊天。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">让孩子知道，犯错后会失去父母的关心与爱护，以后就要避免犯错。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(190, 26, 29);"><strong>8. 拟定家庭公约：</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">在相互尊重的前提下，拟定一份家长和孩子都要遵守的家庭公约，规定哪些事能做，哪些事不能做。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">家长和孩子要互相监督，利用家庭公约培养良好习惯。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(190, 26, 29);"><strong>9. 家人口径一致：</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">父母说法不一，或祖辈宠溺孩子，都会导致对孩子的批评和惩罚大打折扣。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">只有当家庭教育保持一致，父母的管教才会发挥作用。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;color: rgb(190, 26, 29);"><strong>10. 自然承担后果法：</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">如果孩子已经体验到做错事情的后果，那就让他自己承担，不要心疼孩子。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">当孩子能够从这件事情中吸取经验教训，自然就学好了。</span></section><section style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;height: 387px;width: 532px;"></span></section><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="98856"><section><section style="margin: 10px auto;text-align: center;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><section style="display: flex;flex-direction: column;justify-content: center;align-items: center;"><section data-original-title="" title="" data-num="4" style="font-weight: bold;color: rgb(62, 68, 225);font-size: 60px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">4</span></section><section data-width="15%" style="margin-top: -35px;width: 86.6953px;height: 1px;background: rgb(62, 68, 225);overflow: hidden;"><br></section></section></section><section style="padding: 8px; font-size: 16px; font-weight: bold; letter-spacing: 1.5px; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; transform: rotate(0deg); font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">好的教育 奖惩分明</span></section><section style="padding: 8px; font-size: 16px; font-weight: bold; letter-spacing: 1.5px; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; transform: rotate(0deg); font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">好的父母 管教同步<br></span></section></section></section><section style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">很多父母都纠结过一个问题：到底要不要管教孩子？</span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">管了，怕孩子哭鼻子，不管，怕孩子学坏。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">但是家长要明白，惩罚，是为了让孩子改变，而不是为了惩罚而惩罚，这就需要家长们把握度和原则。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 2px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">在惩罚过程中，不能任凭自己的情绪，随意打骂孩子、羞辱孩子，语气要和善而坚定，眼神不带敌意，惩罚内容要贯彻到底。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 10px; 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3. 表扬孩子的创造力和想象力。孩子们天生就有很强的想象力，要鼓励他们自由地发挥，并对他们的创意给予肯定和认可。
4. 表扬孩子的勇气和自信心。鼓励孩子自信地面对挑战和错误，并相信他们能够从中学到经验和教训。
5. 表扬孩子的责任感和自律性。当孩子完成任务并负责任时，要及时表扬他们的自律和责任感。
6. 表扬孩子的团队合作和协调能力。鼓励孩子与他人合作，尤其是在团队项目中表现出色的孩子要受到表扬和奖励。
7. 表扬孩子对他人的关心和友善。在孩子表现出关心和友善之举时，要给予及时的表扬和认可。
8. 表扬孩子的耐心与忍耐力。当孩子需要等待、面对挑战时，如果能够保持冷静、耐心地处理问题，要及时表扬他们的忍耐力与耐心。
9. 表扬孩子的集中力与注意力。孩子们往往无法集中注意力，但是在他们做到了时，要及时表扬他们的努力。
10. 表扬孩子主动学习和探索的积极性和好奇心。当孩子充满热情地主动探索新事物并追求知识时，要给予充分的表扬和鼓励。
11. 惩罚孩子的不良行为要针对具体情况制定合理的惩罚措施，并告知他们为什么要惩罚，帮助孩子深刻理解错误的原因。
12. 惩罚孩子的同时要保持冷静，不要让情绪影响到自己的惩罚决策或过于严厉。
13. 惩罚措施要公正，不要偏袒或刻意迁就孩子，否则孩子会产生错误的价值观。
14. 惩罚孩子后，要及时释放孩子，给予他们重新开始和改正错误的机会。
15. 惩罚措施应以教育为目的，通过惩罚让孩子认识到错误，并且知道如何避免同样的错误。
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