叛逆期的孩子怎么教育？给您60招！
<div class="wx_rich_media_content" id="jsWxContainer"><p style="text-align: center;"><br></p><section style="max-width: 100%; max-inline-size: 100%; border-width: 0px; border-style: none; border-color: initial; z-index: 0; letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important; outline: none 0px !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; font-family: 微软雅黑; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="88290" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border-width: 0px; border-style: none; border-color: initial;"><section style="margin-right: auto; margin-left: auto; padding: 20px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; background-size: cover; background-position: 0% 50%; background-repeat: no-repeat;"><section data-style="text-align:left; line-height: 2em;color:#666;" style="padding: 5px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-size: medium; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 24.5px; text-indent: 28px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">我们每个人都是因为有了孩子，才从孩子变成父母，而抚养孩子长大成人是一个漫长的过程。但随着孩子越长越大，父母却开始觉得孩子越来越不听话，难以管教，什么都要和自己对着干才开心，很是令人头疼。</span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-size: medium; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important;">其实，并不是孩子不听话，只是到了每个孩子都会经历的叛逆期，回想起来，我们曾经不也顶撞我们的父母，不服管教吗？叛逆期是每个孩子都会经历的成长过程，叛逆期的教育和沟通非常重要，父母的引导和方法很有讲究。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-size: medium; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important;">今天，我们就来谈一谈孩子叛逆期如何教育，并告诉你不打不骂教孩子妙招。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-size: medium; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;width:auto !important;max-width:100% !important;height:auto !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-size: medium; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.6; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important;">首先，“叛逆期”是心理学家们的一个说法，代指这个阶段孩子的自我意识快速发展，对独立，自主，自由有了迫切需求。其实，若父母能够读懂孩子叛逆行为背后的心理需求，学会尊重孩子，亲子冲突就不在是必然的结果了</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-size: medium; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important;">从个体心理发展来看，孩子从幼年到成年，会经历3个特别的时期，期间都会表现的很逆反—父母可根据孩子的年龄特点区别对待。尊重孩子的身心发展特点，引导孩子的行为，才能更好的促进孩子健康成长。</span></p></section></section></section></section><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; font-family: 微软雅黑; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="88290" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border-width: 0px; border-style: none; border-color: initial;"><section style="margin-right: auto;margin-left: auto;padding: 20px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;<a href=" https:="" mmbiz.qpic.cn="" mmbiz_jpg="" czv2hrpuapjtlqylrkfiartxu41nbfpc8u8iagfowbxwmzgrmiicru6nll5rf4y2aa03ibelr5tffpc3nlnqludica="" 640?wx_fmt="jpeg" ""="" target="_blank"><section data-style="text-align:left; line-height: 2em;color:#666;" style="padding: 5px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="86486" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border-width: 0px; border-style: none; border-color: initial;"><section style="margin: 30px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(39, 80, 44); background-color: rgb(164, 210, 169); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="margin-top: -20px; margin-left: -4px; max-width: 100%; width: 16px; height: 50px; border-left: 1px solid rgb(164, 210, 169); border-top-color: rgb(164, 210, 169); border-right-color: rgb(164, 210, 169); border-bottom-color: rgb(164, 210, 169); display: inline-block; background-color: rgb(254, 254, 254); transform: rotate(45deg); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></section><section data-style="text-align: center;color:rgb(255,255,255);" style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="margin-top: -30px; margin-bottom: -30px; max-width: 100%; color: inherit; text-align: center; line-height: 2.1; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 25.6px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">第一叛反期：两岁半到三岁左右，自我意识萌发</span></strong></p></section><section style="margin-top: 2px; margin-right: -2px; max-width: 100%; width: 16px; height: 50px; border-right: 1px solid rgb(164, 210, 169); display: inline-block; float: right; background-color: rgb(254, 254, 254); transform: rotate(45deg); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></section></section></section></section><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important;">孩子的第一个逆反期出现在自我意识萌发的时期，一般是在两岁半到三岁左右。不过现在的孩子大约1岁前后就开始表现的“叛逆”了。一方面现在孩子的确越来越聪明了；另一方面是父母们养孩子更加小心，也因此对孩子更早、更多说“不”。孩子们说出的第一个“不”，就是从父母这里学来的。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important;">这个时期的孩子，行动上，常常会用“打人”来表达自己不同意、反对的态度；语言上，则开始说“不”，什么都是“不”，做与不做都是“不”。这是孩子从意识上最早开始的与父母的分离。在这个过程中，孩子开始形成自己的想法和态度，感受与他人分离的快乐，并由此建立和派生出孩子优秀的个人品质。</span></p></section></section></section><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="88290" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border-width: 0px; border-style: none; border-color: initial;"><section style="margin-right: auto;margin-left: auto;padding: 20px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;<a href=" https:="" mmbiz.qpic.cn="" mmbiz_jpg="" czv2hrpuapjtlqylrkfiartxu41nbfpc8u8iagfowbxwmzgrmiicru6nll5rf4y2aa03ibelr5tffpc3nlnqludica="" 640?wx_fmt="jpeg" ""="" target="_blank"><section data-style="text-align:left; line-height: 2em;color:#666;" style="padding: 5px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="86486" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border-width: 0px; border-style: none; border-color: initial;"><section style="margin: 30px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(39, 80, 44); background-color: rgb(164, 210, 169); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="margin-top: -20px; margin-left: -4px; max-width: 100%; width: 16px; height: 50px; border-left: 1px solid rgb(164, 210, 169); border-top-color: rgb(164, 210, 169); border-right-color: rgb(164, 210, 169); border-bottom-color: rgb(164, 210, 169); display: inline-block; background-color: rgb(254, 254, 254); transform: rotate(45deg); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></section><section data-style="text-align: center;color:rgb(255,255,255);" style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="margin-top: -30px; margin-bottom: -30px; max-width: 100%; color: inherit; text-align: center; line-height: 2.1; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span data-brushtype="text" style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size: medium; line-height: 25.6px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 25.6px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 25.6px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">第二叛反期：7-9岁，准大人期</span></strong></span></p></section><section style="margin-top: 2px; margin-right: -2px; max-width: 100%; width: 16px; height: 50px; border-right: 1px solid rgb(164, 210, 169); display: inline-block; float: right; background-color: rgb(254, 254, 254); transform: rotate(45deg); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></section></section></section></section><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important;">这个阶段的孩子不同于婴幼儿时期的宝贝，他们认为自己已经“是一个成人，是一个小大人了，不再是孩子”了，如不愿意让家长拉手，不让父母叫自己“宝贝”或小名了，要求叫他的全名;凡事都喜欢跟家长对着干，大人说东，他偏往西;另一方面，他们又非常依赖大人、不讲道理，爱哭、比较娇气等。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important;">脾气秉性的突然转变，以及强烈的逆反心理都是这个阶段孩子的常见现象。孩子进入学校后学到了很多知识，他们急于想要证明自己已经长大了，因此会开始要求独立，行为上想要脱离爸爸妈妈的掌控，表现为说话做事老气横秋、独立、有个性。</span></p></section></section></section><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="88290" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border-width: 0px; border-style: none; border-color: initial;"><section style="margin-right: auto;margin-left: auto;padding: 20px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;<a href=" https:="" mmbiz.qpic.cn="" mmbiz_jpg="" czv2hrpuapjtlqylrkfiartxu41nbfpc8u8iagfowbxwmzgrmiicru6nll5rf4y2aa03ibelr5tffpc3nlnqludica="" 640?wx_fmt="jpeg" ""="" target="_blank"><section data-style="text-align:left; line-height: 2em;color:#666;" style="padding: 5px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section data-role="paragraph" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 25.6px; border-width: 0px; border-style: none; border-color: initial;"><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="86486" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border-width: 0px; border-style: none; border-color: initial;"><section style="margin: 30px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(39, 80, 44); background-color: rgb(164, 210, 169); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="margin-top: -20px; margin-left: -4px; max-width: 100%; width: 16px; height: 50px; border-left: 1px solid rgb(164, 210, 169); border-top-color: rgb(164, 210, 169); border-right-color: rgb(164, 210, 169); border-bottom-color: rgb(164, 210, 169); display: inline-block; background-color: rgb(254, 254, 254); transform: rotate(45deg); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></section><section data-style="text-align: center;color:rgb(255,255,255);" style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="margin-top: -30px; margin-bottom: -30px; max-width: 100%; color: inherit; text-align: center; line-height: 2.1; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span data-brushtype="text" style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size: medium; line-height: 25.6px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 25.6px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 25.6px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">第三叛反期：12-15的青春期</span></strong></span></p></section><section style="margin-top: 2px; margin-right: -2px; max-width: 100%; width: 16px; height: 50px; border-right: 1px solid rgb(164, 210, 169); display: inline-block; float: right; background-color: rgb(254, 254, 254); transform: rotate(45deg); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></section></section></section></section><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 25.6px; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important;">青春期的孩子身体已发育成熟，觉得自己已经很“强大”了，而心理发育尚未成熟，常常遭遇到各种挫折感，这样，在身体与心理矛盾的自我纠结和成长中，孩子开始有了更多样的情绪体验。对女孩来说，会变得内向并体验到自我怀疑、愧疚或抑郁等情绪;对男孩而言，则更多地体验到暴躁和愤怒。</span></p></section></section></section></section><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="88290" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border-width: 0px; border-style: none; border-color: initial;"><section style="margin-right: auto;margin-left: auto;padding: 20px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;<a href=" https:="" mmbiz.qpic.cn="" mmbiz_jpg="" czv2hrpuapjtlqylrkfiartxu41nbfpc8u8iagfowbxwmzgrmiicru6nll5rf4y2aa03ibelr5tffpc3nlnqludica="" 640?wx_fmt="jpeg" ""="" target="_blank"><section data-style="text-align:left; line-height: 2em;color:#666;" style="padding: 5px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="86486" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border-width: 0px; border-style: none; border-color: initial;"><section style="margin: 30px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(39, 80, 44); background-color: rgb(164, 210, 169); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="margin-top: -20px; margin-left: -4px; max-width: 100%; width: 16px; height: 50px; border-left: 1px solid rgb(164, 210, 169); border-top-color: rgb(164, 210, 169); border-right-color: rgb(164, 210, 169); border-bottom-color: rgb(164, 210, 169); display: inline-block; background-color: rgb(254, 254, 254); transform: rotate(45deg); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></section><section data-style="text-align: center;color:rgb(255,255,255);" style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="margin-top: -30px; margin-bottom: -30px; max-width: 100%; color: inherit; text-align: center; line-height: 2.1; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span data-brushtype="text" style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size: medium; line-height: 25.6px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 25.6px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">孩子叛逆期如何教育</span></strong></span></p></section><section style="margin-top: 2px; margin-right: -2px; max-width: 100%; width: 16px; height: 50px; border-right: 1px solid rgb(164, 210, 169); display: inline-block; float: right; background-color: rgb(254, 254, 254); transform: rotate(45deg); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></section></section></section></section><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important;">由于青春期的孩子大都很好面子，自尊心强;重视同伴关系，易受同伴影响，所以可能会做一些并非自己意愿但同伴认同的事，如抽烟、喝酒，这些行为虽然父母不认可，但对孩子来说，可能是成人的象征，代表他们摆脱了对父母的依赖等。这也意味着青春期的孩子会面临一些危险，如网络成瘾、早孕、酗酒、犯罪等。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important;">有的父母会过度忧虑孩子可能面临的危险。希望孩子顺利度过这一时期，我们必须首先要学会信任孩子有这个能力。事实上，大多数孩子也的确能顺利度过这个特别的时期。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important;">要重点提醒的是，针对这个阶段的孩子，父母很有必要为孩子提供一个健康的社交氛围。不要以为孩子大了就不用陪了。带孩子去参加一些团队活动，多与自己的亲戚朋友走动。别让孩子们把自己封闭起来，或者经常宅在家里玩电游。孩子们有自己的社交，拥有自己的朋友，或者是有自己尊敬的长辈等，这些都有助于他们的心理健康。有些话，即使不能跟父母说，他们也还能有别的倾诉渠道。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important;">同时，父亲的功能尤其显得重要。父亲最好能够跟这个年龄的男孩做朋友。记得，对你的男孩来说，要紧的不是你如何说他、批评他、指点他，而是他信任不信任你，在你身上，他能否看到一个成熟、有责任感的男人的样子。对于女孩来说，父亲不能刻意疏远。女儿长大了，不少父亲不会再像对待假小子一样亲近女儿了。保持一定距离是对的。但是仍然需要保持对你的女孩情绪和情感上的关注、支持。这对她们很重要。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important;">不同时期的孩子有不同的困扰。对于他们的不听话、叛逆，父母要有清醒的认识。另外，父母言行不一或身处不和谐的家庭氛围中的孩子更容易逆反。父母是孩子成长路上的引领者和榜样，要时刻注意自己的言行。自己说一套做的又是另一套，只会招来孩子的不满孩子还怎么听从大人的话呢?另外，父母关系紧张，经常吵架，孩子要么厌恶父母的行为，要么逃避这样的氛围，父母将无法在孩子面前树立权威，孩子只会越走越远。</span></p></section></section></section><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style="max-width: 100%; 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line-height: 25.6px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 25.6px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">不打不骂教孩子60招，快快学起来！</span></strong></span></p></section><section style="margin-top: 2px; margin-right: -2px; max-width: 100%; width: 16px; height: 50px; border-right: 1px solid rgb(164, 210, 169); display: inline-block; float: right; background-color: rgb(254, 254, 254); transform: rotate(45deg); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></section></section></section></section><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); font-size: 14px; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">第1招给孩子创造良好的成长环境</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第2招做孩子人生成长的好榜样</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第3招放下父母架子，平等对待孩子</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第4招信任孩子，做孩子的好朋友</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第5招永远用温和的态度对待孩子</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第6招向孩子敞开自己的心扉</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第7招凡事都要与孩子商量</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第8招和孩子一起分享喜怒哀乐</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第9招注意和孩子说话的语气</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第10招鼓励孩子说出内心的想法</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第11招善听孩子的弦外之音</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第12招不用命令的口气跟孩子讲话</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第13招尊重孩子的秘密和个人隐私</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第14招尊重孩子的个人兴趣</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;color: rgb(122, 68, 66);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: reak-word !important;">第15招尊重孩子的理想和追求</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第16招尊重孩子的意愿和想法</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第17招尊重孩子的各种权利</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第18招尊重孩子的人格尊严</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第19招尊重孩子的朋友</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第20招发现和放大孩子的优点</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第21招永远别说伤害孩子的话</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第22招不在孩子面前唠叨个不停</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第23招“蹲下来”和孩子说话</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第24招站在孩子的角度看问题</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第25招用沟通走入孩子的内心世界</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第26招与孩子交流时多听少说</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第27招用温和的建议走进孩子的心灵</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第28招不用权威的口吻指责孩子</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第29招从生活细节上体贴孩子</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第30招让孩子感觉到深深的爱</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第31招包容孩子的过失</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第32招宽容孩子的缺点</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第33招理解孩子的坏脾气</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第34招多抽些时间陪陪孩子</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第35招不将过高期望强加在孩子身上</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第36招不扮演孩子的“监工”</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第37招让孩子自己作决定</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第38招给孩子自由支配的时间</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第39招不把家变成死板的教室</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第40招给孩子自由发展的空间</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第41招允许孩子发发小脾气</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第42招不急于纠正孩子的“出格”</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第43招不要和逆反的孩子较劲</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第44招永远不对孩子进行体罚</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第45招不粗暴专制地对待孩子</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第46招赏识孩子的努力和勤奋</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第47招及时夸奖孩子</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第48招对孩子进行合理奖惩</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第49招在他人面前赞扬孩子</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第50招用赞美点击孩子的缺点</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第51招肯定孩子的“叛逆”</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第52招不对孩子进行威胁</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第53招适时灵活地激励孩子</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第54招肯定和欣赏孩子的闪光</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第55招不对孩子一味指责</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第56招不对孩子下否定的预言</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第57招不拿孩子和他人随便比较</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第58招多一些引导，少一点控制</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第59招用小纸条和孩子进行交流</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(122, 68, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important;">第60招不向孩子提苛刻条件</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important;">其实，叛逆期的孩子并不难管教，只要我们找对方法并及时和孩子沟通，就能很好的帮助孩子度过叛逆期。</span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section>转载声明：本文转载自「心理讲师联盟」，搜索「x66657172」即可关注，[<a target="_blank" href="https://mp.weixin.qq.com/s/bgeKZ0sCn9uIQar_8uNh1Q">阅读原文</a>]。</div><p></p>
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