人民日报：教育孩子“36个心理计”，家长请每天朗读3遍
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center;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(118, 74, 67);">处罚计</span></strong></span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(118, 74, 67);">让孩子正视错误</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">教育孩子就要赏罚分明，做得好要给予奖励，但做错事时一定不要姑息。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">哪怕只是小错也要进行适度的处罚，这样孩子才能正视自己的错误，及时改正，免得在错误里越陷越深。</span></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section 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67);">给自负的孩子“泼冷水”</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">自负是指自我评价过高，目中无人，这种心理对孩子成长极为不利。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">因此，一旦发现自负的苗头，父母就应当运用“制冷”的手段，适时泼点冷水，让孩子学会理性评价、正确认识自己。</span></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><p style="text-align: center;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;"></span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><p style="margin: 15px 16px 5px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(118, 74, 67);">包容计</span></strong></span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(118, 74, 67);">让孩子感受父母无条件的爱</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">孩子也许不够聪明，也许有很多缺点，可是作为父母，你绝对不能对孩子存有偏见，羞辱或嫌弃自己的孩子。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">对孩子一定要包容，要有信心。</span></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><p style="text-align: center;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;"></span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section style="margin: 15px 16px 5px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(118, 74, 67);">样板计</span></strong></span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(118, 74, 67);">父母要给孩子当好第一任老师</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">父母是孩子的榜样，孩子是父母的镜子，父母的言行举止都会影响到孩子。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">因此父母要严于律已，处处事事以自己的正确言行为孩子树立榜样，引导孩子健康成长。</span></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><p style="text-align: center;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;"></span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section style="margin: 15px 16px 5px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(118, 74, 67);">鼓励计</span></strong></span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(118, 74, 67);">给孩子不断进取的力量</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">孩子很容易对白己失去信心，很突易因为困难而放弃努力。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">因此，家长要不断地鼓励孩子，给他们前进的勇气和必胜的信心，这样他们就能带着父母的期待改正缺点，不断进步。</span></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><p style="text-align: center;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;"></span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section style="margin: 15px 16px 5px; line-height: 2em; text-align: center;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="margin: 15px 16px 5px; line-height: 2em;"><section style="margin: 15px 16px 5px; line-height: 2em;"><section style="margin: 15px 16px 5px; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(118, 74, 67);">倾听计</span></strong></span></section><p style="margin: 5px 16px; line-height: 2em;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(118, 74, 67);">认真了解孩子感受</span></strong></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 16px; line-height: 2em;"><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">每个孩子都有自己心声，家长一定要耐心地去倾听，才能真正了解他的想法、感受，才能对他们生理和心理问题、变化做出及时处理。</span></section><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">在此基础上，才能进行良好的亲子沟通，建立和谐的亲子关系。</span></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><p style="text-align: center;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;"></span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section style="margin: 15px 16px 5px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(118, 74, 67);">赏善计</span></strong></span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(118, 74, 67);">让孩子在赞美声中进步</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">教育孩子，奖励比惩罚更有效。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">多奖励，适当使用惩罚。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">用肯定优点代替否定缺点，这样既可以避免给孩子造成伤害，又可以取得更好进步。</span></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><p style="text-align: center;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;"></span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section style="margin: 15px 16px 5px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(118, 74, 67);">点拨计</span></strong></span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(118, 74, 67);">巧妙提示孩子自觉走正途</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">絮絮叨叨说教、凡事替孩子包办的父母，是孩子最不喜欢的。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">聪明家长只会在孩子遇到难题或行为错误时，从旁稍加提示引导，帮孩子解决疑难。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">这样，孩子明白了道理，家长也达到了教育目的。</span></section><p style="text-align: center;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;"></span></p></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section style="margin: 15px 16px 5px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(118, 74, 67);">虚拟计</span></strong></span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(118, 74, 67);">让孩子产生“我很棒”的感觉</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">“有了天才的感觉，你会成为天才；有了英雄的感觉，你会成为英雄。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">孩子找到了好孩子的感觉，他就会成为好孩子。”</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">用虚拟的手段，给孩子制造一个“我很棒”的自我感觉，他就会逐渐“棒”起来。</span></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><p style="text-align: center;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;"></span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section style="margin: 15px 16px 5px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(118, 74, 67);">容过计</span></strong></span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(118, 74, 67);">让孩子在错误中学到更多</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">孩子难免有些过失、错误。有的是无意，有的是故意的。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">如果孩子所犯过错的性质不是很严重，那么家长就不妨给予宽容、谅解。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">这样孩子不仅会在内疚自责中更认真地改正错误，还可以使孩子形成良好的宽容心态。</span></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><p style="text-align: center;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;"></span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section style="margin: 15px 16px 5px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(118, 74, 67);">训诫计</span></strong></span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(118, 74, 67);">让孩子认识错误、改过自新</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">孩子就是孩子，会不断出现各种问题和错误，有些错误可以宽容，而有些错误是不能姑息的，必须对孩子进行合理、有效批评，以保证不再犯类似的错误。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">即使是再宽大的父母，也不能让这种合理的管教缺位。</span></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section><section 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style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">家庭是孩子第一课堂，家庭教育的影响是深远而巨大的。<br></span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">因此，父母如果能在家庭生活中通过讲故事等方式，培养孩子健康的兴趣爱好，陶冶孩子的情趣、品行，就可以让孩子更健康地成长。</span></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><p style="text-align: center;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;"></span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section style="margin: 15px 16px 5px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(118, 74, 67);">疏导计</span></strong></span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(118, 74, 67);">让孩子由对立变成合作</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">大禹治水的成功之处在于“疏”而不在“堵”，父母也可从中得到启示。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">在教育孩子时太过专制只会引起孩子逆反，跟你“对着干”，但如果采取明智、开放的疏导策略，孩子就会愿意跟你愉快合作。</span></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><p style="text-align: center;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;"></span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section style="margin: 15px 16px 5px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(118, 74, 67);">尊子计</span></strong></span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(118, 74, 67);">让孩子与父母贴得更近</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">亲子间之所以出现冲突矛盾，往往是因为父母对孩子不够尊重，使他们心怀恐惧、不满，拉开彼此距离。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">尝试去尊重孩子，你们一定会成为最受欢迎的父母。</span></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><p style="text-align: center;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;"></span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section style="margin: 15px 16px 5px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(118, 74, 67);">对等计</span></strong></span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(118, 74, 67);">与孩子实现良好沟通</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">与孩子良好沟通的前提，就是平等，做他的好朋友。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">这样他才愿意向你说心里话，家长才可以及时帮他们摆脱各种问题。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">如果总是摆着家长的架子，专制地要求孩子服从自己，那么亲子沟通的大门就会慢慢关上。</span></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><p style="text-align: center;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;"></span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section style="margin: 15px 16px 5px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(118, 74, 67);">攻防计</span></strong></span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(118, 74, 67);">先给孩子打好“预防针”</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">最好的防守就是进攻。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">在教育孩子时也是这样，与其在孩子出现问题后，再去管教、愤怒，还不如提前就打好“预防针”，提高孩子的“免疫力”，让他们少走弯路，少犯错误。</span></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><p style="text-align: center;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;"></span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section style="margin: 15px 16px 5px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(118, 74, 67);">训俭计</span></strong></span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(118, 74, 67);">帮孩子克服骄奢之气</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">现在孩子都是家里“小皇帝”“小公主”，要风得风，要雨得雨，就养成了骄奢的习惯。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">花钱大手大脚，不知爱惜物品，这种习惯对孩子的健康成长极为不利。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">因此家长应理直气壮地教育孩子勤俭节约，帮他养成节俭的习惯，这才是真正的爱他。</span></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><p style="text-align: center;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;"></span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section style="margin: 15px 16px 5px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(118, 74, 67);">伴教计</span></strong></span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(118, 74, 67);">在参与中教出好孩子</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">如果父母能够参与孩子生活，多抽时间陪伴孩子做些事，那么不但可以增进亲子感情，还可以鼓舞孩子。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">同时，还可以对孩子多一些了解，这对开发孩子潜力、培养成才非常重要。</span></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><p style="text-align: center;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;"></span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section style="margin: 15px 16px 5px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(118, 74, 67);">防微计</span></strong></span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(118, 74, 67);">别让小毛病变成大问题</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">生活中，孩子有时会有一些小毛病，比如霸道、无礼、懒惰等。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">这时就要注意了，问题虽小但也要严管，防微杜渐，否则小毛病会变成大问题。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">不要姑息孩子的小毛病，严管同样是爱的表现。</span></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><p style="text-align: center;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;"></span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section style="margin: 15px 16px 5px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(118, 74, 67);">劝和计</span></strong></span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(118, 74, 67);">让孩子与老师相互包容</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">老师与学生之间也会发生一些摩擦和误会，这时家长就要担当“和事佬”的角色，帮助双方消除矛盾、误会，互相理解，互相包容，让孩子依旧尊敬老师，老师继续爱护孩子。</span></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><p style="text-align: center;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;"></span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section style="margin: 15px 16px 5px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(118, 74, 67);">立规计</span></strong></span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(118, 74, 67);">用合理的规则让孩子学会自控</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">孩子白控能力较差，而家长“不要这样”“不要那样”的说教又容易引起厌烦。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">这时，家长可以为孩子建立一套行之有效的行为规则，作为孩子判断自己行为的依据，以此来约束自己的行为。</span></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><p style="text-align: center;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;"></span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section style="margin: 15px 16px 5px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(118, 74, 67);">减负计</span></strong></span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(118, 74, 67);">别给孩子太大压力</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">生活中，有心理障碍的孩子越来越多。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">而儿童心理学家指出，压力过大是导致孩子出现心理问题的一个重要原因，给孩子减负已经成了当务之急。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">为了让孩子健康成长，家长们请别给孩子太大的压力，</span></section></section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><p style="text-align: center;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;width: 578px;height: 89px;"></span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section style="margin: 15px 16px 5px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(118, 74, 67);">激发计</span></strong></span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(118, 74, 67);">激励孩子爱学习</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">教育孩子要找对方式，当劝导、说教都不凑效时，家长们不妨试试这招——激发计。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">利用孩子的好胜心、逆反心甚至嫉妒心来故意刺激孩子，让他们由不爱学习变成积极学习。</span></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><p style="text-align: center;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;"></span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section style="margin: 15px 16px 5px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(118, 74, 67);">悦纳计</span></strong></span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(118, 74, 67);">让孩子喜欢并接受自己</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">如果孩子不能全面地认识自己、看到自己长处，那就会出现很多问题。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">比如自卑、嫉妒等。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">因此，家长要让孩子们看到自己的优点，要让孩子喜欢自己，这样才能自信地面对生活。</span></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><p style="text-align: center;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;"></span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section style="margin: 15px 16px 5px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 17px;color: rgb(118, 74, 67);"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;">用忍计</span></strong></span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 17px;color: rgb(118, 74, 67);"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;">温和地纠正孩子“出格”行为</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">孩子常会做一些令父母无法容忍的“出格”行为，而“急风骤雨”式的教育只会使孩子走向极端。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">因此，家长们只能“戒急用忍”，压下火气，多理解和包容孩子。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">在此基础上加以引导，这样才能引向正途。</span></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><p style="text-align: center;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;"></span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section style="margin: 15px 16px 5px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(118, 74, 67);">励勇计</span></strong></span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(118, 74, 67);">培养孩子大胆探索的个性</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">生活中，常常是那些勇于探索、大胆无畏的人才能取得杰出成就，获得幸福。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">因此，父母为了孩子未来着想，不要过度保护，不要过分强调培养“听话”的孩子，而应该多给孩子一些锻炼的机会，鼓励他们做勇敢的孩子。</span></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><p style="text-align: center;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;"></span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section style="margin: 15px 16px 5px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(118, 74, 67);">感化计</span></strong></span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(118, 74, 67);">以真情感动孩子的心灵</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">教育孩子，不能光是说教、责骂、劝导，有时候还必须要以情感之，这样才能撼动孩子的心灵，达到教育的最佳效果。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">但是，要感化孩子必须要情真意切，否则效果就会大打折扣。</span></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><p style="text-align: center;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;"></span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section style="margin: 15px 16px 5px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(118, 74, 67);">平等计</span></strong></span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(118, 74, 67);">培养胸怀开阔的孩子</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">孩子个个都是“小太阳”，他们习惯以自我为中心，然而这样的性格对人际交往是极为不利的。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">因此，生活中，父母们应注意不要给孩子特殊的地位，培养他们分享、合作的精神，逐步培养出一个胸怀开阔的孩子。</span></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><p style="text-align: center;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;"></span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section style="margin: 15px 16px 5px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(118, 74, 67);">苦磨计</span></strong></span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 17px;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(118, 74, 67);">培养孩子的意志和毅力</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">孩子面临的是一个充满竞争的社会，而很多孩子由于生活过于安逸，缺少战胜困难的勇气。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">因此，聪明的父母应该多让孩子经受一些艰难困苦的磨练，以培养他们坚韧不拔的意志和毅力，这样他们才能在未来的竞争中取胜。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;margin-left: 16px;line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><strong style="font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; outline: 0px; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;box-sizing: border-box !important;visibility: visible !important;width: 19px !important;"></span></span></strong></section></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 16px; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">教育孩子不仅需要爱，更需要正确的爱的方式，也就是方法技巧。</span><br></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 16px; line-height: 2em;"><strong><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(118, 74, 67);">父母是孩子第一任老师，也是孩子一生的老师。</span></strong></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 16px; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">如果这个老师没有教养孩子的方式方法，教养水平低，即使很爱孩子，也无法真正成就孩子。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 16px; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">教养孩子，需要与孩子“斗智斗勇”，因为孩子是活生生的人，他具有独特性、独立性、发展性。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 16px; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">孩子每天都有变化，每年都在成长，没有一把万能钥匙可以打开孩子的一切。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 16px; line-height: 2em;"><strong><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(118, 74, 67);">教育孩子，是需要父母终生努力的事业，也是父母这辈子最重要的事业。</span></strong></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; margin-left: 16px; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">转发<strong>【分享】</strong>，与所有父母共勉。</span></section><h2 style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 1.75em;"><section style="outline: 0px;"><section style="outline: 0px;"><section style="outline: 0px;"><pre style="outline: 0px;"><section mpa-from-tpl="t" style="outline: 0px;"><section mpa-from-tpl="t" style="outline: 0px;"><section mpa-from-tpl="t" style="outline: 0px;"><section mpa-from-tpl="t" style="outline: 0px;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(98, 105, 108);font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, 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