夜读 | 努力提升自己，比仰望别人有意义
<div style="max-width:677px !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue',="" 'pingfang="" sc',="" 'hiragino="" sans="" gb',="" 'microsoft="" yahei="" ui',="" yahei',="" arial,="" sans-serif;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;white-space:="" normal;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);text-align:="" center;box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;'="" data-mpa-powered-by="yiban.io"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue',="" 'pingfang="" sc',="" 'hiragino="" sans="" gb',="" 'microsoft="" yahei="" ui',="" yahei',="" arial,="" sans-serif;line-height:="" 27.2px;text-align:="" center;box-sizing:="" border-box="" 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136);"><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);font-size: 14px;max-width: 100%;text-align: left;text-indent: 28px;caret-color: rgb(136, 136, 136);letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">名家画廊 | </span><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);max-width: 100%;caret-color: rgb(136, 136, 136);font-size: 14px;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;text-indent: 28px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">白雪石，早年师从赵梦朱，后拜梁树年为师，他的山水画师宗北派，旁及南派，广采博取，兼收各类画种之精华。</span></span></p><section><br></section><section><mpvoice class="js_editor_audio audio_iframe js_uneditable custom_select_card" 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rgb(226, 233, 241));box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding: 10px;max-width: 558px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">时光漫长，保持提升自己，终将长成想要的模样。</span></strong></span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue',="" 'pingfang="" sc',="" 'hiragino="" sans="" gb',="" 'microsoft="" yahei="" ui',="" yahei',="" arial,="" sans-serif;box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;'=""><span></span></p><p>人生，努力提升自己，永远比仰望别人有意义。</p><p><br></p><p>有一句话这样说：“成长的意义在于增加人生阅历，丰富生命体验，不断觉察自省，无限接近成熟。”</p><p><br></p><p>人生前半段，我们走了很多路，有了丰富的经历；后半段，要不断增加阅历，增长自己的见识。</p><p><br></p><p>有人问，经历和阅历，不是一回事吗？并不是如此。</p><p><br></p><p>经历是一个人走过多少路，看过多少风景；阅历是一个人有多少思考，对人生有多少深刻的见解和认识。</p><p><br></p><p>有经历的人未必有阅历，有阅历的人不需要有经历。</p><p><br></p><p>30岁那年，莎莎选择从工作5年的公司请辞。她在这家公司做得很好，已经跃迁中层。换一家公司，可能意味着一切从头做起。</p><p><br></p><p style="white-space: normal;">问起她离职的原因，她说，再也无法从这家公司学到或收获什么了。</p><p style="white-space: normal;"><br></p><p style="white-space: normal;">她说，想换一个地方去学习、去提升自己。如果不去看看，她不知道外面的世界有多大，自己能达到什么高度。</p><p style="white-space: normal;"><br></p><p style="white-space: normal;">事实证明，她的选择是对的。在自我精进这条路上，她一直在朝前走。</p><p style="white-space: normal;"><br></p><p><strong><span style="color: rgb(123, 12, 0);">一个人有多少实力，就可以走多远的路，看多辽阔的风景。</span></strong></p><p><br></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue',="" 'pingfang="" sc',="" 'hiragino="" sans="" gb',="" 'microsoft="" yahei="" ui',="" yahei',="" arial,="" sans-serif;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;white-space:="" normal;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);text-align:="" center;box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;'=""><span></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue',="" 'pingfang="" sc',="" 'hiragino="" sans="" gb',="" 'microsoft="" yahei="" ui',="" yahei',="" arial,="" sans-serif;box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;'=""><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;caret-color: rgb(136, 136, 136);font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 14px;text-align: left;caret-color: rgb(136, 136, 136);max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;text-indent: 28px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;">名家画廊 | </span><span style="max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 14px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;text-indent: 28px;caret-color: rgb(136, 136, 136);background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">白雪石</span></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue',="" 'pingfang="" sc',="" 'hiragino="" sans="" gb',="" 'microsoft="" yahei="" ui',="" yahei',="" arial,="" sans-serif;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;white-space:="" normal;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;'=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue',="" 'pingfang="" sc',="" 'hiragino="" sans="" gb',="" 'microsoft="" yahei="" ui',="" yahei',="" arial,="" sans-serif;box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;'=""><span></span><br></p><p><br></p><p>在提升自己的同时，也要提升情商，提高修养。<br></p><p><br></p><p>听过一句话：“年龄越大，越没有人原谅你的低情商。”随时间增长的，不应只有年纪，还有为人处世的情商和修养。</p><p><br></p><p>情商高的人，说话如沐春风；有修养的人，做事沁人心脾。</p><p><br></p><p><strong><span style="color: rgb(123, 12, 0);">高情商的背后，是一份洞察人性的同理心：虽然我没有经历你的人生，但是我理解你。</span></strong></p><p><br></p><p>看看周围情商高的人身边，总是人来人往，人群熙攘；反之，情商低的人，把人都得罪了，身边总是人迹稀少。</p><p><br></p><p>真正的高情商背后，其实都是一种善良。</p><p><br></p><p><strong><span style="color: rgb(123, 12, 0);">为人着想的贴心，面面俱到的细心，其实也是一个人内在的修养。</span></strong></p><p><br></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue',="" 'pingfang="" sc',="" 'hiragino="" sans="" gb',="" 'microsoft="" yahei="" ui',="" yahei',="" arial,="" sans-serif;box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;'=""><span></span><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue',="" 'pingfang="" sc',="" 'hiragino="" sans="" gb',="" 'microsoft="" yahei="" ui',="" yahei',="" arial,="" sans-serif;line-height:="" 27.2px;text-align:="" left;box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;'=""><span style="font-size: 14px;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);"><span style="font-size: 14px;caret-color: rgb(136, 136, 136);max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;text-indent: 28px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">名家画廊 | </span><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: left;text-indent: 28px;caret-color: rgb(136, 136, 136);background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">白雪石</span></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue',="" 'pingfang="" sc',="" 'hiragino="" sans="" gb',="" 'microsoft="" yahei="" ui',="" yahei',="" arial,="" sans-serif;line-height:="" 27.2px;text-align:="" left;box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;'=""><br></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue',="" 'pingfang="" sc',="" 'hiragino="" sans="" gb',="" 'microsoft="" yahei="" ui',="" yahei',="" arial,="" sans-serif;line-height:="" 27.2px;text-align:="" left;box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;'=""><span></span><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p><br></p><p>曾经以为，学习是学生时代的事。岁月渐长才发现，少年不知愁滋味，那时候逃掉的学习的苦，后来都变成了生活的累。</p><p><br></p><p>后来明白，学习才是解决人生难题的终极答案。走出校园后，保持学习有很多形式。</p><p><br></p><p>有人工作上遇到瓶颈期，所以去考证；有人学习了新的技能，于是开启副业；有人发展新爱好，生活打开新的窗口；有人提升认知方式，看问题更多维度……</p><p><br></p><p><strong><span style="color: rgb(123, 12, 0);">保持学习，不仅丰富了学识，开阔了视野，而且提升了防御风险的能力。</span></strong></p><p><br></p><p>有人说：“我并不期待人生可以一直过得很顺利，但我希望碰到人生难关的时候，自己可以是它的对手。”</p><p><br></p><p>多学一项技能，生活就多开一道出口。多长一门本领，人生就有更多的选择权。</p><p><br></p><p>人生的淡定和从容，都是从学到的本领修炼来的气定神闲。保持学习，是每一个成年人的必修课。</p><p><br></p><p>有人曾经问保持年轻的秘诀是什么？看到一个回答是：对这个世界保持好奇，一直都在学习。</p><p><br></p><p>衰老的标志不是额间白发，也不是皮肤褶皱，而是那个人不再对这个世界怀有探索。</p><p><br></p><p>无论是看几本书，打开新的知识面，还是学习一项新技能，获得一份新的生命体验，都是在拓宽生命的边界，丰富自己的人生。</p><p><br></p><p>不断地提升自己，终究可以带自己到达想去的地方。</p><p><br></p><p>正如一个人说：“你要去相信，时光漫长，只要坚持学习你终将长成自己想要的模样，拥抱独属于你的未来。”</p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue',="" 'pingfang="" sc',="" 'hiragino="" sans="" gb',="" 'microsoft="" yahei="" ui',="" yahei',="" arial,="" sans-serif;letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;white-space:="" normal;background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;'=""><br style="max-width: 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