高考填志愿前，请把这14条建议读完
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style="max-width: 100%;text-align: justify;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(47, 47, 47);font-size: 15px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">高考志愿填报是人生中的一次大事，究竟应该如何看待它？父母在其中应该扮演什么样的角色？或许是帮孩子出谋划策、实地考察，但切勿直接帮孩子做决定，多听听他们的意见，让他们参与到自己的人生规划中来，这才是最重要的。</span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;display: flex;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-right: 31px;max-width: 100%;display: flex;width: 31px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-top: -8.1px;margin-bottom: 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PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">又到了高考志愿填报的关键期。但就在高考前夕，曾有一条微博热搜成为了热议话题。有位网友说，高考已经过去十年了。可每每想起，只觉如鲠在喉。因为，那一年高考，她的志愿被妈妈篡改了。</span></p></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 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5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(47, 47, 47);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">十年前，这个女孩参加高考，分数不错的她想报考喜欢的英语专业。可妈妈却觉得，会计专业好就业，便在她不知情的情况下，把第一志愿改成了普通本科的会计专业。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(47, 47, 47);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">这样的操作，不仅仅让她错失了自己的梦想，当年的她并没有被成功录上妈妈看重的会计专业，而是被调剂到了一个二本的专业。这成为了她一辈子挥之不去的心结。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(47, 47, 47);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">如此的悲剧，其实非常值得反思。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(47, 47, 47);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">为了爱，为了孩子好，妈妈用自己的人生经验，替孩子做出最优的选择。正如一位网友的评论：“今天可以篡改你的志愿，逼你上不喜欢的学校，以后也会逼你干不喜欢的工作，甚至嫁不喜欢的人……”</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(47, 47, 47);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">又到了高考志愿填报的关键期了，希望父母能够多听听孩子的意见，放下焦虑，同时，也</span></strong><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(47, 47, 47);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;background-color: rgb(0, 112, 192);color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">切勿以爱之名，“操纵”孩子的人生。</span></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, 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unset;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 1px;direction: ltr;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(47, 47, 47);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">心理老师李松蔚曾为正在填报高考志愿的孩子与家长写了14条建议：</span></p></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 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inline-block;width: 55px;height: 55px;vertical-align: top;overflow: hidden;border-width: 0px;border-radius: 50px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(210, 239, 230);background-color: rgb(0, 112, 192);line-height: 0;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="margin-top: 26px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;text-align: center;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-size: 20px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">#1</strong></p></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="margin-bottom: 16px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding-right: 31px;padding-left: 31px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(109, 109, 109);line-height: 1.8;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(255, 181, 97);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">■</span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(107, 203, 179);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"> </span><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(47, 47, 47);font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">把人生看成是可变的，而且是永远可变的东西。</span></strong><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(47, 47, 47);font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">这句话约等于废话，但有必要时常重温。高考填志愿，是人生无数变化中的一次。很重要，但不是决定性的。实际上了大学以后，可能换专业，可能修双学位，可能跨专业考研，可能你发现真正有兴趣的东西不在大学里，可能找一个跟专业无关的岗位实习，可能退学……再换几回工作，你很可能会发现工作中完全用不到大学里的知识。</span></p></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;max-width: 100%;display: flex;flex-flow: row nowrap;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-left: 30px;max-width: 100%;display: inline-block;width: auto;vertical-align: top;flex: 100 100 0%;height: auto;align-self: flex-start;background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);border-style: solid solid solid dashed;border-width: 0px 0px 0px 1px;border-color: rgb(107, 203, 179) rgb(107, 203, 179) rgb(107, 203, 179) rgb(0, 112, 192);box-shadow: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0) 0px 0px 0px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;text-align: left;justify-content: flex-start;transform: translate3d(-28px, 0px, 0px);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;display: inline-block;width: 55px;height: 55px;vertical-align: top;overflow: hidden;border-width: 0px;border-radius: 50px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(210, 239, 230);background-color: rgb(0, 112, 192);line-height: 0;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="margin-top: 26px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;text-align: center;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-size: 20px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">#2</strong></p></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="margin-bottom: 16px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding-right: 31px;padding-left: 31px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(109, 109, 109);line-height: 1.8;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(255, 181, 97);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">■</span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(107, 203, 179);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"> </span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(47, 47, 47);font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">要一个孩子在18岁时就明智地规划自己的一生，既不可能，事实上也无必要。非要给什么建议的话，就是一句：<strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">给“变化”留出空间。</strong></span></p></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;max-width: 100%;display: flex;flex-flow: row nowrap;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-left: 30px;max-width: 100%;display: inline-block;width: auto;vertical-align: top;flex: 100 100 0%;height: auto;align-self: flex-start;background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);border-style: solid solid solid dashed;border-width: 0px 0px 0px 1px;border-color: rgb(107, 203, 179) rgb(107, 203, 179) rgb(107, 203, 179) rgb(0, 112, 192);box-shadow: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0) 0px 0px 0px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;text-align: left;justify-content: flex-start;transform: translate3d(-28px, 0px, 0px);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;display: inline-block;width: 55px;height: 55px;vertical-align: top;overflow: hidden;border-width: 0px;border-radius: 50px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(210, 239, 230);background-color: rgb(0, 112, 192);line-height: 0;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="margin-top: 26px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;text-align: center;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-size: 20px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">#3</strong></p></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="margin-bottom: 16px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding-right: 31px;padding-left: 31px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(109, 109, 109);line-height: 1.8;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(255, 181, 97);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">■</span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(107, 203, 179);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"> </span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(47, 47, 47);font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">在这个年代，是个地方都留有变化的空间，除非受到某些极特殊的限制。毕业定向分配之类的协议，能不签尽量不签。哪怕它提供给你一份确定的未来保障。<strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">要知道，你将来随时可能有更好的想法。</strong></span></p></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;max-width: 100%;display: flex;flex-flow: row nowrap;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-left: 30px;max-width: 100%;display: inline-block;width: auto;vertical-align: top;flex: 100 100 0%;height: auto;align-self: flex-start;background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);border-style: solid solid solid dashed;border-width: 0px 0px 0px 1px;border-color: rgb(107, 203, 179) rgb(107, 203, 179) rgb(107, 203, 179) rgb(0, 112, 192);box-shadow: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0) 0px 0px 0px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;text-align: left;justify-content: flex-start;transform: translate3d(-28px, 0px, 0px);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;display: inline-block;width: 55px;height: 55px;vertical-align: top;overflow: hidden;border-width: 0px;border-radius: 50px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(210, 239, 230);background-color: rgb(0, 112, 192);line-height: 0;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="margin-top: 26px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;text-align: center;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-size: 20px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">#4</strong></p></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="margin-bottom: 16px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding-right: 31px;padding-left: 31px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(109, 109, 109);line-height: 1.8;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(255, 181, 97);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">■</span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(107, 203, 179);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"> </span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(47, 47, 47);font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">不考虑其它变量的影响，在选择学校的时候，我会推荐那些专业范围更广，开设的课程更多，给学生提供更多实践机会的学校。因为总的来说，<strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">可供选择的资源多，尝试的空间大，一个人发生改变的概率就更高。</strong>就像你不知道想吃什么的时候，可以去一家可以提供更多种类食物的自助餐厅。虽然他们家的牛排不是顶级的，但至少你看到自己对牛排的兴趣，你可以去找更好的牛排。</span></p></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;max-width: 100%;display: flex;flex-flow: row nowrap;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-left: 30px;max-width: 100%;display: inline-block;width: auto;vertical-align: top;flex: 100 100 0%;height: auto;align-self: flex-start;background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);border-style: solid solid solid dashed;border-width: 0px 0px 0px 1px;border-color: rgb(107, 203, 179) rgb(107, 203, 179) rgb(107, 203, 179) rgb(0, 112, 192);box-shadow: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0) 0px 0px 0px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;text-align: left;justify-content: flex-start;transform: translate3d(-28px, 0px, 0px);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;display: inline-block;width: 55px;height: 55px;vertical-align: top;overflow: hidden;border-width: 0px;border-radius: 50px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(210, 239, 230);background-color: rgb(0, 112, 192);line-height: 0;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="margin-top: 26px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;text-align: center;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-size: 20px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">#5</strong></p></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="margin-bottom: 16px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding-right: 31px;padding-left: 31px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(109, 109, 109);line-height: 1.8;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(255, 181, 97);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">■</span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(107, 203, 179);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"> </span><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(47, 47, 47);font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">眼界很重要。</span></strong><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(47, 47, 47);font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">具体地说，就是能见到多少跟自己不一样的人，多大程度认可生活方式和价值理念上的多元。</span></p></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;max-width: 100%;display: flex;flex-flow: row nowrap;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-left: 30px;max-width: 100%;display: inline-block;width: auto;vertical-align: top;flex: 100 100 0%;height: auto;align-self: flex-start;background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);border-style: solid solid solid dashed;border-width: 0px 0px 0px 1px;border-color: rgb(107, 203, 179) rgb(107, 203, 179) rgb(107, 203, 179) rgb(0, 112, 192);box-shadow: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0) 0px 0px 0px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;text-align: left;justify-content: flex-start;transform: translate3d(-28px, 0px, 0px);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;display: inline-block;width: 55px;height: 55px;vertical-align: top;overflow: hidden;border-width: 0px;border-radius: 50px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(210, 239, 230);background-color: rgb(0, 112, 192);line-height: 0;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="margin-top: 26px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;text-align: center;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-size: 20px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">#6</strong></p></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="margin-bottom: 16px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding-right: 31px;padding-left: 31px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(109, 109, 109);line-height: 1.8;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(255, 181, 97);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">■</span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(107, 203, 179);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"> </span><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(47, 47, 47);font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">选城市比选大学重要，选大学比选具体的专业重要。</span></strong><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(47, 47, 47);font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">学校有怎样的氛围，周围人是什么价值观，比传授了哪些知识更重要。</span></p></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;max-width: 100%;display: flex;flex-flow: row nowrap;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-left: 30px;max-width: 100%;display: inline-block;width: auto;vertical-align: top;flex: 100 100 0%;height: auto;align-self: flex-start;background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);border-style: solid solid solid dashed;border-width: 0px 0px 0px 1px;border-color: rgb(107, 203, 179) rgb(107, 203, 179) rgb(107, 203, 179) rgb(0, 112, 192);box-shadow: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0) 0px 0px 0px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;text-align: left;justify-content: flex-start;transform: translate3d(-28px, 0px, 0px);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;display: inline-block;width: 55px;height: 55px;vertical-align: top;overflow: hidden;border-width: 0px;border-radius: 50px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(210, 239, 230);background-color: rgb(0, 112, 192);line-height: 0;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="margin-top: 26px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;text-align: center;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-size: 20px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">#7</strong></p></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="margin-bottom: 16px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding-right: 31px;padding-left: 31px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(109, 109, 109);line-height: 1.8;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(255, 181, 97);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">■</span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(107, 203, 179);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"> </span><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(47, 47, 47);font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">开放度高的城市优于保守的城市，开放度高的学校优于保守的学校。</span></strong><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(47, 47, 47);font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">开放度可以用一种简单的方式考察：了解一下这个学校所谓的“优秀学生”，看看他们多大程度上属于同一类人。他们之间的个体差异越大，代表这里的开放度越高。反过来说，如果你看到的大体上都是同一类人：努力学习，考研，考公务员……最好在你已经确定自己也属于这类人的时候，再加入这个地方。</span></p></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;max-width: 100%;display: flex;flex-flow: row nowrap;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-left: 30px;max-width: 100%;display: inline-block;width: auto;vertical-align: top;flex: 100 100 0%;height: auto;align-self: flex-start;background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);border-style: solid solid solid dashed;border-width: 0px 0px 0px 1px;border-color: rgb(107, 203, 179) rgb(107, 203, 179) rgb(107, 203, 179) rgb(0, 112, 192);box-shadow: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0) 0px 0px 0px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;text-align: left;justify-content: flex-start;transform: translate3d(-28px, 0px, 0px);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;display: inline-block;width: 55px;height: 55px;vertical-align: top;overflow: hidden;border-width: 0px;border-radius: 50px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(210, 239, 230);background-color: rgb(0, 112, 192);line-height: 0;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="margin-top: 26px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;text-align: center;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-size: 20px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">#8</strong></p></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="margin-bottom: 16px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding-right: 31px;padding-left: 31px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(109, 109, 109);line-height: 1.8;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(255, 181, 97);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">■</span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(107, 203, 179);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"> </span><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(47, 47, 47);font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">不是说努力学习有什么不好。</span></strong><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(47, 47, 47);font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">而是说，在你周围的人都争相学习，争相考研的氛围下，你很难坚信“其实我有更适合做的事”这样的想法。</span></p></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;max-width: 100%;display: flex;flex-flow: row nowrap;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-left: 30px;max-width: 100%;display: inline-block;width: auto;vertical-align: top;flex: 100 100 0%;height: auto;align-self: flex-start;background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);border-style: solid solid solid dashed;border-width: 0px 0px 0px 1px;border-color: rgb(107, 203, 179) rgb(107, 203, 179) rgb(107, 203, 179) rgb(0, 112, 192);box-shadow: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0) 0px 0px 0px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;text-align: left;justify-content: flex-start;transform: translate3d(-28px, 0px, 0px);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;display: inline-block;width: 55px;height: 55px;vertical-align: top;overflow: hidden;border-width: 0px;border-radius: 50px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(210, 239, 230);background-color: rgb(0, 112, 192);line-height: 0;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="margin-top: 26px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;text-align: center;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-size: 20px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">#9</strong></p></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="margin-bottom: 16px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding-right: 31px;padding-left: 31px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(109, 109, 109);line-height: 1.8;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(255, 181, 97);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">■</span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(107, 203, 179);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"> </span><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;color: rgb(47, 47, 47);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">郭德纲老师说过一段相声，大意是说，上大学好比坐火车，985/211的就像是坐软卧，舒舒服服的，也有的坐硬卧，还有硬座的，还有站票的。但坐的都是同一趟火车，到站下车，大家还得一起奔生活。这之后你能混成什么样，取决于你到底会做什么，没有人问你“刚才是坐什么座位来的”。——这话不完全对，实际上也会问。但<strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">问这句话的本质目的，还是你到底会做什么。</strong></span></p></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;max-width: 100%;display: flex;flex-flow: row nowrap;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-left: 30px;max-width: 100%;display: inline-block;width: auto;vertical-align: top;flex: 100 100 0%;height: auto;align-self: flex-start;background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);border-style: solid solid solid dashed;border-width: 0px 0px 0px 1px;border-color: rgb(107, 203, 179) rgb(107, 203, 179) rgb(107, 203, 179) rgb(0, 112, 192);box-shadow: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0) 0px 0px 0px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;text-align: left;justify-content: flex-start;transform: translate3d(-28px, 0px, 0px);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;display: inline-block;width: 55px;height: 55px;vertical-align: top;overflow: hidden;border-width: 0px;border-radius: 50px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(210, 239, 230);background-color: rgb(0, 112, 192);line-height: 0;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="margin-top: 26px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;text-align: center;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-size: 20px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">#10</strong></p></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="margin-bottom: 16px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding-right: 31px;padding-left: 31px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(109, 109, 109);line-height: 1.8;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(255, 181, 97);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">■</span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(107, 203, 179);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"> </span><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;color: rgb(47, 47, 47);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">记住，什么都是可以学的。</span></strong></p></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;max-width: 100%;display: flex;flex-flow: row nowrap;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-left: 30px;max-width: 100%;display: inline-block;width: auto;vertical-align: top;flex: 100 100 0%;height: auto;align-self: flex-start;background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);border-style: solid solid solid dashed;border-width: 0px 0px 0px 1px;border-color: rgb(107, 203, 179) rgb(107, 203, 179) rgb(107, 203, 179) rgb(0, 112, 192);box-shadow: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0) 0px 0px 0px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;text-align: left;justify-content: flex-start;transform: translate3d(-28px, 0px, 0px);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;display: inline-block;width: 55px;height: 55px;vertical-align: top;overflow: hidden;border-width: 0px;border-radius: 50px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(210, 239, 230);background-color: rgb(0, 112, 192);line-height: 0;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="margin-top: 26px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;text-align: center;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-size: 20px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">#11</strong></p></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="margin-bottom: 16px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding-right: 31px;padding-left: 31px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(109, 109, 109);line-height: 1.8;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(255, 181, 97);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">■</span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(107, 203, 179);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"> </span><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(107, 203, 179);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"> </span><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;color: rgb(47, 47, 47);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">什么都可以学，在哪里都可以学。</span></strong><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;color: rgb(47, 47, 47);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">这个时代，知识是最便宜的。书很便宜，网上的课程很便宜，还有各种社会培训机构。只要想学习，大多数学校和专业课程都可以旁听。很多同城活动，线下沙龙，请各个领域的专家做讲座做分享，几乎是求着你免费参加。这种条件下，还以为只有“选对一所大学”才能获得必要的教育，是过时的想法了。</span></p></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;max-width: 100%;display: flex;flex-flow: row nowrap;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-left: 30px;max-width: 100%;display: inline-block;width: auto;vertical-align: top;flex: 100 100 0%;height: auto;align-self: flex-start;background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);border-style: solid solid solid dashed;border-width: 0px 0px 0px 1px;border-color: rgb(107, 203, 179) rgb(107, 203, 179) rgb(107, 203, 179) rgb(0, 112, 192);box-shadow: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0) 0px 0px 0px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;text-align: left;justify-content: flex-start;transform: translate3d(-28px, 0px, 0px);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;display: inline-block;width: 55px;height: 55px;vertical-align: top;overflow: hidden;border-width: 0px;border-radius: 50px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(210, 239, 230);background-color: rgb(0, 112, 192);line-height: 0;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="margin-top: 26px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;text-align: center;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-size: 20px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">#12</strong></p></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="margin-bottom: 16px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding-right: 31px;padding-left: 31px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(109, 109, 109);line-height: 1.8;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(255, 181, 97);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">■</span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(107, 203, 179);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"> </span><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(107, 203, 179);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"> </span><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;color: rgb(47, 47, 47);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">放轻松，这次你怎么选都不会出错。</span></strong><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;color: rgb(47, 47, 47);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">相比于一次选择，更重要的是你未来要付出怎样的努力，做多少事情，来维护这一次选择。</span></p></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;max-width: 100%;display: flex;flex-flow: row nowrap;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-left: 30px;max-width: 100%;display: inline-block;width: auto;vertical-align: top;flex: 100 100 0%;height: auto;align-self: flex-start;background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);border-style: solid solid solid dashed;border-width: 0px 0px 0px 1px;border-color: rgb(107, 203, 179) rgb(107, 203, 179) rgb(107, 203, 179) rgb(0, 112, 192);box-shadow: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0) 0px 0px 0px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;text-align: left;justify-content: flex-start;transform: translate3d(-28px, 0px, 0px);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;display: inline-block;width: 55px;height: 55px;vertical-align: top;overflow: hidden;border-width: 0px;border-radius: 50px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(210, 239, 230);background-color: rgb(0, 112, 192);line-height: 0;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="margin-top: 26px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;text-align: center;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-size: 20px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">#13</strong></p></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="margin-bottom: 16px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding-right: 31px;padding-left: 31px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(109, 109, 109);line-height: 1.8;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(255, 181, 97);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">■</span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(107, 203, 179);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"> </span><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;color: rgb(47, 47, 47);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">这条是写给父母的：<strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">作为父母，念及孩子长远的发展，有很大好处。孩子进一所大学，选一个专业，不足以确定人生。</strong>即便是大学最初几年，都有可能发生很大变数。按我在大学工作的经验，变化的方向分两类：一类努力证明自己做对了选择，而另一类则要证明自己做错了选择。后者的选择中往往强加了别人的意志。在父母看来，自己的判断永远是比孩子更对的。但是相信我，当孩子想证明你的选择并不对的时候，他们绝对有这个能力。</span></p></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;max-width: 100%;display: flex;flex-flow: row nowrap;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-left: 30px;max-width: 100%;display: inline-block;width: auto;vertical-align: top;flex: 100 100 0%;height: auto;align-self: flex-start;background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);border-style: solid solid solid dashed;border-width: 0px 0px 0px 1px;border-color: rgb(107, 203, 179) rgb(107, 203, 179) rgb(107, 203, 179) rgb(0, 112, 192);box-shadow: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0) 0px 0px 0px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;text-align: left;justify-content: flex-start;transform: translate3d(-28px, 0px, 0px);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;display: inline-block;width: 55px;height: 55px;vertical-align: top;overflow: hidden;border-width: 0px;border-radius: 50px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(210, 239, 230);background-color: rgb(0, 112, 192);line-height: 0;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="margin-top: 26px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;text-align: center;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-size: 20px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">#14</strong></p></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="margin-bottom: 16px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding-right: 31px;padding-left: 31px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(109, 109, 109);line-height: 1.8;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(255, 181, 97);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">■</span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(107, 203, 179);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"> </span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(47, 47, 47);font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">一次选择，对人生有影响。但若抱着“一次选不好，人生则无希望”这样的信念，<strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">这个信念对人生的负面影响，要远远比一次选择更大。</strong></span></p></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;text-align: unset;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(47, 47, 47);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">简单来说，这些建议可以变成一句话：</span><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);background-color: rgb(0, 112, 192);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">无论分数怎样、无论怎样报考专业、无论去了哪所学校，都不是孩子的最终结局。导演还没喊卡，好戏就在后头。而且，他们是自己的导演。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(47, 47, 47);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">我们不妨从高考志愿填报的事情延伸开去，探讨一下父母在孩子中的角色问题。</span></p></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;display: inline;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;display: inline;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;line-height: 0;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span></span></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;text-align: center;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 112, 192);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 18px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">让孩子掌控生活</strong></span></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;text-align: unset;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(47, 47, 47);font-size: 15px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">曾有一个名为“阳光守护”的手机APP在家长群中被广泛传播。据说，这款APP的作用是防止孩子沉迷于网络。它能实现什么呢？</span><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: center;justify-content: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding-right: 10px;padding-left: 10px;max-width: 100%;display: inline-block;width: 677px;vertical-align: top;height: auto;box-shadow: rgb(0, 0, 0) 0px 0px 0px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;display: flex;flex-flow: row nowrap;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: auto;align-self: stretch;flex: 100 100 0%;height: auto;background-color: rgba(201, 200, 200, 0.15);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section></section><section style="margin-left: -50px;max-width: 100%;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: 617.578px;flex: 0 0 auto;align-self: flex-start;height: auto;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="padding-right: 8px;padding-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;text-align: justify;font-size: 14px;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子去了哪？用定位功能，一键追踪；</p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子拿手机干了什么，用“手机使用”功能，一目了然；</p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子和朋友聊天？用远程监控功能，随时截屏孩子的手机；</p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子交什么朋友？用上相关插件，连QQ、微信都能禁止添加好友。</p></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;text-align: unset;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(47, 47, 47);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">在这款手机程序里，孩子的隐私、孩子的思想、孩子的朋友在父母眼里，无处遁形，宛如过着一键定制的人生。</span></p></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-top: 15px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;text-indent: 0em;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;display: inline;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding-right: 0.5em;padding-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;line-height: 22.5px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;display: inline;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;display: inline;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;display: inline;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;line-height: 0;box-shadow: rgb(150, 150, 150) 0px 0px 8px;font-size: 17px;border-radius: 8px;border-width: 0px;border-style: none;border-color: rgb(89, 89, 89);overflow: hidden;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span></span></section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;display: inline;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;text-align: unset;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(47, 47, 47);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">《欢乐颂》里有一句台词：<strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“永远不要低估国内父母的热情，为了孩子，他们可以割舍一切，自然也会要求更高的掌控。”</strong></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(47, 47, 47);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">小到穿什么衣服、吃什么东西；上学跟谁玩，报什么兴趣班；大到选什么学校，填什么专业，找什么样的工作…… </span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(47, 47, 47);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">这样的父母，</span><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);background-color: rgb(0, 112, 192);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">看似是为孩子好，事无巨细地替孩子安排张罗，可他们却从未看见孩子真实的感受，也从未想过他们自己想要过怎样的人生。</span><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(47, 47, 47);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"> </span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;display: inline;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;display: inline;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;line-height: 0;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span></span></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;text-align: center;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(0, 112, 192);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">被“计划”的孩子，飞不远</span></strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;text-align: unset;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(47, 47, 47);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">在著名的TED演讲中，曾有一位叫朱莉的学霸型妈妈，她自己曾就读于哈佛大学法学院、加州艺术学院、斯坦福大学，毕业后当过律师、斯坦福大学校长助理、校务长等，拥有两个孩子。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(47, 47, 47);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">她在演讲中讲到自己真实的育儿经历：</span></p></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: center;justify-content: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding-right: 10px;padding-left: 10px;max-width: 100%;display: inline-block;width: 677px;vertical-align: top;height: auto;box-shadow: rgb(0, 0, 0) 0px 0px 0px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;display: flex;flex-flow: row nowrap;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: auto;align-self: stretch;flex: 100 100 0%;height: auto;background-color: rgba(201, 200, 200, 0.15);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section></section><section style="margin-left: -50px;max-width: 100%;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: 617.578px;flex: 0 0 auto;align-self: flex-start;height: auto;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="padding-right: 8px;padding-left: 8px;max-width: 100%;text-align: justify;font-size: 14px;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);letter-spacing: 0.5px;line-height: 2;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“我们确保他们安全、健康、吃好、喝好然后期望他们进入好学校，并且是好学校的好班级，在好学校好班级中还要取得好成绩，并且不只是成绩，还要拿高分。不只要好成绩和高分，还要获得荣誉和奖项。要参加运动、活动、还要有领导力。我们告诉孩子，不要只是参加社团，还要创建社团，因为大学喜欢这样的学生。还要参加社区服务。我的意思是，要让大学看到你会关心他人，这些都是期望中的完美……然后对孩子，我们不遗余力地花心思督促、帮忙、劝导，想尽办法以确保孩子做好清单上的所有事情。直到有一天，孩子问：我这样活着到底有什么意义？”</p></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;text-align: justify;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;text-align: unset;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(47, 47, 47);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">当面对孩子这样的提问时，是令人觉得难过的。在父母眼里，这样的付出自然是有意义的，因为在这样的努力中，他们会进入好的大学、找到好的工作，会有更加光明的未来。但是对于孩子而言，他们更希望证明自己，更希望建立自我效能，为自己的人生做更多的思考、规划、决定、行动、期望、应对、试验、犯错、梦想以及体验。</span></p></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-top: 15px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;text-indent: 0em;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;display: inline;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding-right: 0.5em;padding-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;line-height: 22.5px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;display: inline;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;display: inline;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;display: inline;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;line-height: 0;box-shadow: rgb(150, 150, 150) 0px 0px 8px;font-size: 17px;border-radius: 8px;border-width: 0px;border-style: none;border-color: rgb(89, 89, 89);overflow: hidden;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span></span></section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;display: inline;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;text-align: unset;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(47, 47, 47);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">伦敦大学学院的科学家在《积极心理学期刊》的一项研究发现：</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(47, 47, 47);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">父母的控制行为，和孩子以后生活中的心理健康问题之间存在关联。<strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">家长控制欲过强，对孩子幸福感造成的负面影响，与痛失至亲产生的负面影响程度相近。</strong></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);background-color: rgb(0, 112, 192);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">孩童时期被父母过多限制行为、干涉隐私的人，会造成终生的伤害，长大后独立性差，依赖性强，无论在哪个阶段，幸福指数都更低。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(47, 47, 47);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">催促孩子，他被推着往前走，却也失去了自己寻找方向的能力；你不给孩子选择的自由，他避免了那些走歪的路，却也没了向往自由的生气； 你为孩子定制好完美人生，觉得他从此高枕无忧，却不知道他的躯壳里装的早已不是自己的灵魂。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(47, 47, 47);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">没有选择权力的孩子，就像笼中鸟，看着健健康康，其实随时都处在抑郁和痛苦的边缘。</span></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-top: 15px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;text-indent: 0em;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;display: inline;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding-right: 0.5em;padding-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;line-height: 22.5px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;display: inline;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;display: inline;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;display: inline;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;line-height: 0;box-shadow: rgb(150, 150, 150) 0px 0px 8px;font-size: 17px;border-radius: 8px;border-width: 0px;border-style: none;border-color: rgb(89, 89, 89);overflow: hidden;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span></span></section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;display: inline;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;text-align: unset;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;display: inline;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;display: inline;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;line-height: 0;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span></span></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;text-align: center;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 112, 192);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 18px;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">父母的角色</strong></span></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;text-align: unset;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(47, 47, 47);font-size: 15px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">父母有种天然的本能，看到孩子没有向我们希望的目标奔去，就会忍不住着急，想要插手干涉。可是，</span><strong style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(47, 47, 47);font-size: 15px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">克服这样的本能，本身也是一种修行。</strong><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-top: 15px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;text-indent: 0em;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;display: inline;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding-right: 0.5em;padding-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;line-height: 22.5px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;display: inline;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;display: inline;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;display: inline;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;line-height: 0;box-shadow: rgb(150, 150, 150) 0px 0px 8px;font-size: 17px;border-radius: 8px;border-width: 0px;border-style: none;border-color: rgb(89, 89, 89);overflow: hidden;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span></span></section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;display: inline;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;text-align: unset;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(47, 47, 47);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">孙瑞雪在《爱和自由》写：父母的职责是用爱给孩子提供一个安全的环境，但至于如何探索世界，那是孩子的自由。 </span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(47, 47, 47);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">我们需要控制的，不是孩子，而是自己的心。掌控自己多余的控制欲，一定要做到这几点： </span></p></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-bottom: -5px;max-width: 100%;text-align: left;justify-content: flex-start;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;display: inline-block;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding-right: 10px;padding-left: 10px;max-width: 100%;display: inline-block;min-width: 10%;vertical-align: top;box-shadow: rgba(13, 70, 58, 0.83) 0px 0px 0px;border-top: 1px none rgb(62, 62, 62);border-top-left-radius: 0px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;display: inline;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-top: 10px;max-width: 100%;justify-content: flex-start;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;display: inline;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;display: inline-block;width: auto;vertical-align: top;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="margin-bottom: -6px;padding-right: 5px;padding-left: 5px;max-width: 100%;text-align: unset;line-height: 1em;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(0, 112, 192);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">（1）要明白：孩子是独立的个体。</strong></p></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;width: 260.266px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;width: 260.266px;height: 10px;background-color: rgb(254, 241, 224);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" style="float: left;line-height: 0;width: 0px;vertical-align: top;"></svg></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;text-align: unset;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(47, 47, 47);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">你的孩子，不是你的孩子。他不是谁的附属品，更不是父母的延续，他会拥有自己的思想、经历，活出自己的人生。 从精神层面上将孩子与自己相剥离，才能减少对孩子的掌控欲。</span></p></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-bottom: -5px;max-width: 100%;text-align: left;justify-content: flex-start;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;display: inline-block;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding-right: 10px;padding-left: 10px;max-width: 100%;display: inline-block;min-width: 10%;vertical-align: top;box-shadow: rgba(13, 70, 58, 0.83) 0px 0px 0px;border-top: 1px none rgb(62, 62, 62);border-top-left-radius: 0px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;display: inline;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-top: 10px;max-width: 100%;justify-content: flex-start;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;display: inline;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;display: inline-block;width: auto;vertical-align: top;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="margin-bottom: -6px;padding-right: 5px;padding-left: 5px;max-width: 100%;text-align: unset;line-height: 1em;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(0, 112, 192);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">（2）要明确，父母和孩子之间的界限。</strong></p></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;width: 292.266px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;width: 292.266px;height: 10px;background-color: rgb(254, 241, 224);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" style="float: left;line-height: 0;width: 0px;vertical-align: top;"></svg></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;text-align: unset;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(47, 47, 47);font-size: 15px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">什么该管，什么不该管；什么能帮，什么不能帮？</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(47, 47, 47);font-size: 15px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">明智的父母都知道，再亲近的家人，也应该保持一定的界限。</span></strong><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(47, 47, 47);font-size: 15px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">触及孩子隐私问题，不要碰；孩子的人生选择，给他建议，但不要干涉；是非原则问题，建立规则再执行，管教而非管控。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(47, 47, 47);font-size: 15px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">不断提醒自己和孩子相处的边界，减少自己控制、干涉孩子选择的次数和时间，久而久之就会形成肌肉记忆，有意识地遏制自己的控制欲。</span></p></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino 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!important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;display: inline-block;width: auto;vertical-align: top;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="margin-bottom: -6px;padding-right: 5px;padding-left: 5px;max-width: 100%;text-align: unset;line-height: 1em;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(0, 112, 192);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">（3）要多给，孩子独立的机会。</strong></p></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;width: 244.266px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;width: 244.266px;height: 10px;background-color: rgb(254, 241, 224);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" style="float: left;line-height: 0;width: 0px;vertical-align: top;"></svg></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;text-align: unset;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(47, 47, 47);font-size: 15px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">当孩子第一次出现和父母对抗的迹象时，就表明他已经有了自己的想法，而我们要做的就是学会放手。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(47, 47, 47);font-size: 15px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">其实，“放手”这个词从孩子出生开始就已经出现了。放手让孩子学走路、面对外界、学着独立…… 从小的时候，就训练孩子独自完成一些事情，多去独立尝试，长大了拥有独立的能力，我们才能相信孩子自己可以。做到这些，我们才能真正扮演好父母的角色，帮助而不干涉，保护而不控制。 </span></p></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-top: 15px;margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;text-indent: 0em;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;display: inline;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section 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!important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;line-height: 0;box-shadow: rgb(150, 150, 150) 0px 0px 8px;font-size: 17px;border-radius: 8px;border-width: 0px;border-style: none;border-color: rgb(89, 89, 89);overflow: hidden;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span></span></section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;display: inline;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;text-align: unset;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(47, 47, 47);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">父母给孩子最好的爱，就是让他们活成自己想要的样子。</span></strong><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(47, 47, 47);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">我们能给孩子最好的“完美人生”，是一个拥有选择权的人生。拥有选择权的孩子，才能学会勇敢、冒险、抉择和满足。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);background-color: rgb(0, 112, 192);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“我是爱你的，你是自由的。” 这才是父母与孩子之间最理想的距离。 </span></p></section></section><section powered-by="135编辑器" style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;text-align: unset;line-height: 2em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word 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